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Reclaiming Your Voice Through Breath, Movement, and Sound

I believe healing often involves more than simply changing our thoughts—it Healing is not only about changing our thoughts—it is also about reconnecting with the body, calming the nervous system, and creating safe opportunities to express what may have been held inside for far too long.

I recognize that stress, grief, fear, overwhelm, emotional pain, and trauma are not experienced only in the mind. These experiences are often carried in the body as well. They may show up as shallow breathing, tightness in the chest, tension in the shoulders, jaw clenching, throat constriction, or difficulty expressing emotions and needs.

Sometimes we do not realize how much we have been holding until we intentionally slow down, breathe deeply, and begin listening to what the body has been trying to communicate.

Research continues to support the strong connection between the mind, body, and nervous system. Practices that integrate breath, movement, sound, and emotional expression may support emotional regulation, stress reduction, nervous system regulation, and improved emotional awareness (Bormann et al., 2006; Perry & Polito, 2022; Simpson et al., 2021).

Within the Beyond Possibilities Mindful Healing framework, we use evidence-informed practices that support healing in the mind, body, and spirit. Breathwork, mindful movement, vocal expression, prayer, gratitude, and reflection can all serve as gentle tools to help us reconnect with ourselves and create space for healing.


The Connection Between Voice and Wellness

The voice is deeply connected to both emotional expression and nervous system regulation. Vocal sounds such as humming, chanting, singing, sighing, and intentional sound-making engage the breath, throat, chest, diaphragm, and nervous system simultaneously.

Research suggests that vocal sound practices may help calm the nervous system, reduce stress, improve body awareness, and support emotional expression (Bormann et al., 2006; Perry & Polito, 2022; Simpson et al., 2021).

This matters because many people carry unspoken emotions in the body.

Unexpressed grief may settle in the chest.
Fear may tighten the throat.
Stress may live in shallow breathing.
Pain may show up as tension in the jaw and shoulders.

Over time, silence can become a survival pattern.

Some people learn early in life that speaking up feels unsafe. Others silence their needs to avoid conflict, rejection, shame, or disappointment. Over time, this can disconnect us from our voice, our truth, and even parts of our identity.

Healing often includes reclaiming those lost parts.


Start Using Your Voice to Support Your Wellness

Using your voice can be a simple but powerful wellness practice.

You do not need to be a singer.
You do not need perfect pitch.
You do not need to do it perfectly.

You simply need a willingness to breathe and allow sound to emerge.

Humming creates soothing vibrations that may promote relaxation. Chanting combines sound, rhythm, and breath to help quiet mental noise. Singing can provide emotional release and joy. Even a deep audible sigh can help release physical tension and signal safety to the body.

Simple practices may include:

  • Humming softly for 30–60 seconds
  • Exhaling with an audible “Ahhhh”
  • Singing along to uplifting music
  • Repeating scripture, prayer, or affirmations aloud
  • Using sound during mindful movement

Sometimes the most healing sound is the sound of your own voice reminding your body that you are safe.


Reclaiming Your Voice Through Movement and Sound

Healing often begins with awareness, but transformation also invites us into action.

As we move through stress, grief, fear, overwhelm, or emotional pain, many of those experiences become reflected not only in our thoughts, but in the body as well. Tension may settle in the jaw, throat, shoulders, chest, and breath—areas closely connected to emotional expression and vocalization.

When we intentionally combine breath, movement, and sound, we create opportunities to release tension, improve body awareness, and support healing in the mind, body, and spirit.

Movement helps reconnect us to the body.
Breath helps regulate the nervous system.
Sound helps create space for expression.

Together, these practices may help us move from survival toward healing.


Guided Practice: Reclaiming Your Voice Through Movement and Sound

Now that we have explored the connection between breath, movement, sound, and emotional expression, I invite you to move from learning into experience.

This guided practice is an opportunity to reconnect with your body, your breath, and your voice. As you engage with this video, allow yourself to move freely, breathe deeply, and express safely. There is no need for perfection—simply give yourself permission to be present with whatever arises.

Notice what you feel in your body.
Notice where tension begins to soften.
Notice what emotions, thoughts, or sensations come forward.

Approach this practice with curiosity, compassion, and grace. This practice will be new to most of you, but give yourself permission to scream, sigh, cry or any other sound that comes up. This practice uses “Ha”, but you should make what ever sound comes naturally to you.

This is your time to find a place where you can freely move around breathe, make noise, release, and reconnect.


Speaking Your Truth

For many people, emotional pain is connected to silence.

Perhaps you learned to stay quiet to keep the peace.
Perhaps you felt unseen, unheard, dismissed, or unsafe.
Perhaps life experiences taught you to suppress your needs, emotions, or boundaries.

Over time, silence can feel normal.

But healing often includes reclaiming your voice.

Speaking your truth does not mean being loud, harsh, or confrontational. It means honoring what is real within you. It means learning to express your emotions, needs, boundaries, values, and truth with honesty and courage.

Your voice matters.
Your feelings matter.
Your experiences matter.

Sometimes speaking your truth begins privately—in prayer, journaling, or reflection.

Sometimes it sounds like:
“I need support.”
“That hurt me.”
“I feel overwhelmed.”
“This is what I need.”
“This is who I am.”

There is healing in truth.

When we silence ourselves, stress often remains stored in both mind and body. When we safely express ourselves, we create opportunities for clarity, peace, connection, and healing.

At Beyond Possibilities, we believe healing involves the whole person—mind, body, and spirit. Your voice is part of that healing journey.

Use it with courage.
Use it with compassion.
Use it with grace.

Your healing matters.
Your story matters.
Your voice deserves to be heard.

“Death and life are in the power of the tongue…” — Proverbs 18:21 (KJV)


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APA 7 References

Bormann, J. E., Oman, D., Kemppainen, J., Becker, S., Gershwin, M., & Kelly, A. (2006). Mantram repetition for stress management in veterans and healthcare employees: A pilot study. Journal of Advanced Nursing, 53(5), 502–512. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1365-2648.2006.03752.x

Perry, G., & Polito, V. (2022). How chanting relates to cognitive function, altered states and quality of life. Brain Sciences, 12(11), 1456. https://doi.org/10.3390/brainsci12111456

Simpson, F. M., Perry, G., & Thompson, W. F. (2021). Assessing vocal chanting as an online psychosocial intervention. Frontiers in Psychology, 12, 647632. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.647632

Family Life Education, Healing Journey, Self-Discovery

Becoming Through the Journey: Stepping Into What Is Next

There are moments in life when we realize we are no longer the person we used to be.

Not because life was easy.
Not because every plan worked out.
But because the journey itself changed us.

As I step into the final term of my Bachelor’s degree in Human and Family Services, I find myself reflecting on what it truly means to grow. This degree was never just about education. It became a journey of healing, stretching, rediscovering purpose, and learning how to become who I was always capable of becoming.

Growth rarely arrives wrapped in comfort.

Sometimes it comes through heartbreak.
Sometimes through uncertainty.
Sometimes through seasons where we feel completely unqualified for what lies ahead.

Yet somehow, those very seasons shape us into people who can carry greater wisdom, compassion, and strength.

One of the most powerful truths I have learned is this:

We are not stuck.
We are becoming.

A growth mindset teaches us that our abilities, understanding, and character are not fixed. We can learn new things. We can adapt. We can rise after failure. We can rebuild after loss. We can develop strengths we never imagined we possessed.

Too often society quietly whispers that growth belongs to the young — that there is a timeline for dreams, education, purpose, or transformation.

But life tells a different story.

People rediscover themselves in their 40s.
They begin new careers in their 50s.
They heal old wounds in their 60s.
They finally believe in themselves after decades of self-doubt.

You are never too old to learn.
Never too old to heal.
Never too old to dream again.
Never too old to become more.

Every experience we walk through carries the potential to teach us something meaningful if we are willing to grow through it instead of merely survive it.

There is something deeply sacred about stepping into “what’s next” even when the future feels uncertain.

Growth often requires leaving behind familiar versions of ourselves. The identities built around fear, shame, limitation, or survival cannot always follow us into the next season. Sometimes God lovingly invites us to release who we had to be so we can become who we were created to be.

Our divine purpose is not usually revealed all at once.

It unfolds step by step.

Lesson by lesson.
Season by season.
Experience by experience.

Looking back, I can now see that many of the hardest moments in my life were also preparing me to better understand people, extend compassion, and walk alongside others with empathy and authenticity. Human and Family Services is not simply a degree to me; it is an extension of lived experience transformed into purpose.

The beautiful thing about growth is that it changes not only what we do — it changes how we see ourselves.

We stop defining ourselves by our past mistakes.
We stop believing that setbacks mean failure.
We begin to understand that becoming takes time.

A seed does not apologize for needing seasons to grow.
Neither should we.

There is courage in beginning again.
There is courage in learning.
There is courage in admitting we do not have everything figured out yet.
And there is incredible courage in continuing forward despite fear.

If you are standing at the edge of a life-changing season right now, wondering whether you are capable of stepping into what comes next, this is your reminder:

You do not need to have every answer before taking the next step.

Growth happens while walking.

Purpose unfolds while becoming.

And sometimes the very fact that you are willing to keep growing is evidence that something greater is already unfolding within you.

Maybe this next chapter is not about proving yourself.

Maybe it is about finally believing that your life still holds purpose, possibility, and room to grow.

No matter your age.
No matter your past.
No matter how delayed your journey may feel.

You are still becoming.

And that becoming matters.

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Family Life Education, Healing Journey, Self-Discovery

What If?

Yesterday, I took time to ponder the open ended question “What if?”

I then published the following video:

As I continued to ponder that question throughout the day more and more clarity come from it.

This morning it lead me to creating a poem/song with the help of AI that help me organize my thought beautifully.

What if…I Know…

What if I knew the power of words and grew up believing in me?
What if I knew I was beautiful and could see my own divinity?
What if my voice felt safe, and my truth was always enough?
What if I trusted my path, even when it felt uncertain or tough?
What if every part of me—healing, whole, and free—
Was always leading me back to the highest version of me?


What if I knew the power of words and grew up believing in me?
What if I knew I was beautiful and could see my own divinity?
What if I spoke life into every cell, every dream, every desire?
What if I realized my worth was never something to acquire?
What if I stopped shrinking and finally chose to rise—
And saw my reflection through truth instead of old disguise?


What if I knew the power of words and grew up believing in me?
What if I knew I was beautiful and could see my own divinity?
What if the child within me felt safe, seen, and heard?
What if love was the language behind every single word?
What if I rewrote the story that once held me small—
And remembered I was worthy, I was always enough… through it all?


What if I knew the power of words and grew up believing in me?
What if I knew I was beautiful and could see my own divinity?
What if I breathed in truth and released every lie?
What if I trusted my wings were always meant to fly?
What if I softened, surrendered, and allowed myself to be—
Exactly who I was created, unapologetically free?


I know the power of words and I believe in me.
I know I am beautiful. I see my divinity.
I speak life into my cells, my dreams, my desire.
I trust in my worth—there’s nothing left to acquire.
I rise in my truth, no longer needing disguise—
I stand in my power and honor what’s inside.


I know the power of words and I believe in me.
I know I am beautiful. I see my divinity.
I am safe in my voice, every part now free.
I am held in my path, becoming all I can be.
Every piece of my healing has led me to see—
I am whole, I am worthy, I am already me.



Let that sink in. Stop listening to the noise that makes you feel less than and small. Start loving yourself and choosing a different narrative.

I dedicate this song to my husband Joseph, who saw through my past and saw me, who has encouraged my healing journey and who has been my biggest cheerleader and support. He encourages me to follow my dreams and my intuition. He has supported me going to college and getting my degree in Human and Family Services to which I will be graduating with my Bachelor’s degree in the Summer of 2026.

I am grateful for my children who have taught me so much along the way and who have been supportive as I learn, grow, make mistake, and change during my healing journey and life.

I am also grateful for Ronai Brumett who has also help me step into my strengths and who I am. Checkout RonaiBrumett.com to she her amazing work. She took me kicking and screaming to my first AromaDance class and now dancing has become a huge part of my healing journey. She introduced me to Emotion Code by Dr. Bradley Nelson and now I am a Certified Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code Practitioner. She introduced me to Eddie Villa and his Unleash Your Strengths book and work. The two of them have helped me understand who I was divinely created by God to be.

I am grateful for my tribe who been with me through ups and downs. I am also grateful for everyone who has influenced my journey whether it as good or bad. Without my experiences I would not be where I am now.

Are you ready to discover you and define yourself differently?

What If …

You are beautiful, You are Powerful, You are safe, You are enough, You are safe, You are whole, You are worthy, You are already who You are meat to be!

Tired of Being Tired How Natural Solutions Support Sleep, Rest, and Recovery
Essential Oils, Health

Tired of Being Tired

How Natural Solutions Support Sleep, Rest, and Recovery

There is a kind of tired that sleep doesn’t fix.

The kind where your body feels heavy…
your thoughts keep looping…
and even when you stop, you don’t truly rest.

I’ve lived there.

And what I’ve come to understand—through both experience and research—is this:

You don’t just need sleep.
You need a nervous system that feels safe enough to rest.

Because when your body feels safe…
rest becomes natural.


🧠 Understanding Rest, Active Rest, and Recovery

Before we add anything in, we honor how the body already works.

🌿 Active Rest

Active rest is gentle, intentional activity that regulates the nervous system while keeping the body lightly engaged.

It looks like:

  • Slow walks
  • Stretching
  • Breathwork
  • Time in nature

It allows the body to shift out of stress without forcing stillness.


🔄 Active Recovery

Active recovery is intentional support after stress—physical, emotional, or mental—to enhance the body’s repair processes.

It supports:

  • Circulation
  • Muscle repair
  • Nervous system recalibration

💤 Rest vs Recovery

TermMeaning
SleepDeep biological restoration
RestReduced stimulation
Active RestGentle nervous system regulation
RecoveryRepair and rebuilding
Active RecoveryIntentional healing support

🌿 Natural Ways to Achieve Active Rest & Recovery

Before oils, we support the body the way it was designed.

Because essential oils don’t replace these foundations—
they enhances them and supports the bodies natural intelligence.


🌬️ 1. Breath: Your Built-In Reset

Slow breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, allowing the body to shift into rest and recovery.

➡️ This shift is essential for sleep and healing (Lillehei & Halcon, 2014).

Practice:

  • Inhale 4 seconds
  • Exhale 6–8 seconds

🚶‍♀️ 2. Gentle Movement (Active Rest)

Movement communicates safety.

Try:

  • Walking
  • Stretching
  • Slow yoga

This helps regulate stress hormones and improves circulation.


🌅 3. Circadian Rhythm Support

Your body thrives on rhythm.

Support it with:

  • Morning sunlight
  • Consistent sleep times
  • Reduced evening screen exposure

🌊 4. Sensory Environment

Your nervous system is always listening.

Create calm through:

  • Lighting
  • Sound
  • Temperature
  • Scent

✍️ 5. Emotional Processing

Unprocessed emotion keeps the body activated.

Support release through:

  • Journaling
  • Gratitude
  • Stillness

Reducing emotional stress improves sleep and recovery (Kim et al., 2024).


🌿 Where Essential Oils Fit In

Essential oils work through the olfactory system, directly influencing the limbic system, which regulates stress, emotion, and sleep.

➡️ This is why scent can rapidly promote relaxation and improve sleep quality (Lillehei & Halcon, 2014).

Research shows:

  • Lavender improves sleep and reduces anxiety
  • Aromatherapy enhances overall sleep quality (Tian et al., 2022)

Essential oils don’t force rest.
They invite the body into it.


🌿 doTERRA Essential Oils by Function

💤 Sleep Support

  • Lavender – calming, reduces anxiety
  • Roman Chamomile – soothing
  • Cedarwood – grounding
  • Serenity Blend – supports sleep cycles

🌿 Active Rest Support

Supports nervous system regulation while staying gently engaged

  • Balance – grounding and stabilizing
  • Frankincense – deepens breath and presence
  • Bergamot – uplifts while calming
  • Adaptive – supports stress resilience
  • Shinrin-Yoku – inspired by forest bathing, promotes grounding, reduces mental fatigue, and supports a calm, centered state during light activity

Shinrin-Yoku is especially powerful during:

  • Nature walks
  • Breathwork
  • Quiet reflection
  • Transition moments in your day

🔄 Active Recovery Support

  • Deep Blue – muscle soothing
  • Copaiba – calming and recovery support
  • Eucalyptus – respiratory support
  • Rosemary – circulation support

🛌 Rest Support

  • Vetiver – deeply calming
  • Sandalwood – grounding
  • Ylang Ylang – tension relief

💪 Recovery Support

  • Frankincense – cellular support
  • Lemon – uplifting
  • Tea Tree – cleansing
  • On Guard – immune support

🛠️ Integrated doTERRA Daily Protocols

Supporting your body throughout the day—
not just at night—is what changes everything.


🌅 Morning: Gentle Activation + Grounded Energy

Goal: Wake the body without triggering stress

Routine:

  • Diffuse: Lemon + Rosemary
  • Apply: Balance to feet/spine
  • Optional: Deep Blue for physical tension

🌿 Midday Reset: Active Rest in Real Life

Goal: Prevent overwhelm and reset your nervous system

Routine:

  • Inhale: Adaptive or Bergamot
  • Apply: Frankincense to wrists
  • Use: Shinrin-Yoku during a 5–10 minute walk or quiet pause

Why this matters:
Shinrin-Yoku enhances the experience of “forest bathing,” which has been associated with reduced stress and improved mood through sensory engagement with nature.


🔄 Post-Activity: Active Recovery

Goal: Support the body after exertion

Routine:

  • Apply: Deep Blue + Copaiba
  • Diffuse: Eucalyptus
  • Gentle stretching

🌙 Evening Wind-Down

Goal: Signal safety and prepare for rest

Routine:

  • Diffuse: Balance + Frankincense
  • Apply: Vetiver or Sandalwood
  • Breathwork

💤 Night Routine: Sleep Support

Goal: Improve sleep quality and depth

Routine:

  • Diffuse: Lavender + Serenity
  • Apply: Lavender to feet or pillow
  • Optional: Roman Chamomile to chest

➡️ Shown to support sleep quality and relaxation (Tian et al., 2022)


🔄Meditation and Music to Support Rest & Recovery


💬 Truth to Hold Onto

You are not tired because you are doing something wrong.

You are tired because your body has been holding more
than it was meant to carry without rest.

And your body isn’t asking for perfection—
it’s asking for support.


✨ Final Thoughts

What if rest isn’t something you have to chase…
but something you can gently return to?

And what if, through small, intentional shifts—
breath, movement, environment, and support—

you could finally feel what it means
to be restored?


📚 APA 7 References

Lillehei, A. S., & Halcon, L. L. (2014). A systematic review of the effect of inhaled essential oils on sleep. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine, 20(6), 441–451. https://doi.org/10.1089/acm.2013.0311

Tian, L., et al. (2022). Aromatherapy with essential oils and sleep quality: A meta-analysis. BMC Complementary Medicine and Therapies. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12906-022-03668-0

Kim, J., et al. (2024). Effects of lavender essential oil on psychological and physiological responses: A meta-analysis. Asian Journal of Beauty and Cosmetology.

Öztürk, G. Y., et al. (2024). Effect of lavender oil on sleep and anxiety. Journal of Traditional Complementary Medicine.

Energy Healing, Essential Oils, Family Life Education, Healing Journey, Health, Self-Discovery

Learning To Love Me – Selfcare Without Guilt

I grew up hating my self. There was not anything about me that someone did not tell me I need to do differently. I was a Tommy Boy, over weight, struggled with reading and school (diagnosed with dyslexia in the 3rd grade). I tried to change who I was to fit the many influences. But with a select few friends I was able to just be me. I will forever be grateful to Kim and her family who never tried to change anything. They just loved me.

Unfortunately, I fell in love with someone who I thought loved me too, but as soon as we were married, he wanted me to change everything about me. His abuse started off with verbal abuse which then turned sexual and then physical.

Amazingly, Joseph saw me. When he told me that he could see himself married to me, I tried to tell him how broken I was. I did not believe I was loveable and I did not love myself. I was ashamed of who I was and what I have been through.

Joseph and I married in 1999, we started a family. He saw through my trauma and triggers and he encouraged me to get help. He was my soft place to fall when I was not strong enough to stand.

While working for Two Little Hands Products they offered the employees training that was a self-discovery seminar. Joseph also went through the seminar and that is where everything started changing. Not changing because someone was telling me I needed to be different, but because I started learning that there was nothing wrong with me. My past was just what happened not who I was.

A friend I made during the seminar gave me the book “Remembering Wholeness” by Carol Tuttle. Joseph, got it for me on Audible so I could listen and follow along. I learned how to reconnect to my spiritual roots, to stop identifying myself through the eyes of others, my past, my fears and my failures. I learned that my thoughts shape my reality. I started following her work, I learned EFT and started learning more about other energy-clearing techniques.

For the first time I started love learning. The more I listened while following with books the easier reading became. I still us that technique as I have much better understanding and recall when I listen and follow along. I also started asking who God saw me as and what he needed me to become.

Along this journey, I started using essential oils and in October of 2013 I became a doTERRA Wellness Advocate. At my first doTERRA Convention, I felt inspired to start blogging about my experiences with mental health and abuse. Joseph was my biggest supported as I started sharing. But not everyone in my life where as supportive.  In 2014 I became Certified as an AromaDance Instructor and Certified in AromaTouch Technique. In January of 2018 I became Certified Essential Oil Coach. This allowed me to see that I could do hard things. I kept finding things that interested me and that helped me learn more about myself.

Over 10 years ago Mary Lambert – Secrets became my theme song. I no longer care if people know about my past and my insecurities.

In 2019, Ronai Brumett introduced me to the work of Bradley Nelson and the Emotion Code. In May of 2020 I completed my Emotion Code Practitioner Certification. In July of 2021 I completed my Body Code Certification.

In January of 2022, I started something I never thought I would do. I want back to school to get my degree. Although I loved learning college is hard. While doing college in n July of 2024 I completed my Belief Code Certification. In October 2025 I completed my Associate of Applied Science in Family and Human Services from Brigham Young University Idaho.

Along the way I started learning to love myself. I am not perfect at it. I spent over 40 years hating a lot of things about myself. As I have used the skills I have learned with Essential Oils, Emotion Code, Body Code, Belief Code, AromaDance, Mindful Movement, and through my college education I have release things that no longer serve me and I started loving pieces of myself. I am a work in process and I am grateful for who I am.

For one of my class projects I focused on selfcare without the guilt. This was not easy, but over the 4 weeks I started seeing the benefits of taking care of myself first. I discovered that self-care is not selfish—it is foundational. It is the fuel that supports your mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to show up fully in your life rather than running on empty. When you honor your need for rest, nourishment, connection, and regulation, you are not taking away from others—you are strengthening your capacity to love, serve, create, and heal. Self-care is an act of wisdom, stewardship, and self-respect.

I have created a journal to help you do what I did for myself.


During the process I have found what selfcare method support me for different situation. Dance is one of my best tool. Along the way I came across two more theme song for my journey. I am grateful for the Positivity Able Heart is putting out into the world. I think we are kindred spirits. Give them a listen.

As I began practicing self-care intentionally—without guilt, without justification, and without waiting until everything else was done—I noticed something profound: my capacity to cope, connect, and heal expanded. What started as a deeply personal journey slowly became something I wanted to understand more fully. I didn’t just want to know that self-care felt helpful—I wanted to know whether it was supported, especially for those of us who have lived with trauma, burnout, or years of believing our needs didn’t matter.

What I discovered was validating and freeing: modern, peer-reviewed research consistently shows that self-care is not selfish, indulgent, or optional—it is foundational. The very practices we are often taught to feel guilty for—rest, emotional regulation, boundaries, reflection, and nourishment—are the same practices shown to protect mental health, reduce stress and burnout, and support long-term resilience. Science now confirms what many of us learn the hard way: caring for ourselves is not taking away from others; it is what allows us to show up fully, sustainably, and authentically.

The research below helps remove guilt from self-care by reframing it as a necessary, evidence-based component of well-being. It supports what this journal is designed to do—help you honor your needs without shame, choose care without apology, and understand that tending to your mind, body, and spirit is not a failure of strength, but an expression of it.

Self-care practices—intentional actions individuals take to maintain or improve their physical, mental, and emotional health—have been consistently linked to improved psychological well-being and reduced stress. Research indicates that engaging regularly in activities such as mindfulness, physical rest, and holistic health behaviors strengthens resilience and mitigates the effects of stress, burnout, and psychological distress across diverse populations (Tushe, 2025). For example, studies show that structured self-care activities such as mindfulness training can significantly decrease stress and burnout while enhancing psychological resilience in students and professionals alike, suggesting that these practices function as protective factors in the face of ongoing demands rather than indulgences (Chen et al., 2025; Kwon, 2023). This evidence underscores self-care as a proactive lifestyle component that supports long-term adaptive functioning rather than a luxury reserved for the “less busy.”

Empirical research further demonstrates that self-care supports emotional regulation and mental well-being by fostering mindful awareness and self-compassion, which are associated with better stress management and interpersonal functioning. Systematic reviews and meta-analyses find that regular engagement in mindful self-care practices correlates with positive mental health outcomes, including increased self-acceptance, emotional balance, and reduced burnout symptoms in various helping professions (Monroe et al., 2021; moment). These outcomes show that self-care enables individuals to remain present, manage daily stressors effectively, and engage with life more fully—not because they are indulgent, but because they build essential psychological capacities that sustain performance, relationships, and overall health.

Importantly, research also highlights that self-care is not equally easy to adopt in conditions of elevated stress, which can paradoxically make people feel guilt or pressure when they struggle to practice it. Studies examining self-care behaviors during stressful situations such as the COVID-19 pandemic show that higher perceived stress can negatively impact the likelihood of engaging in self-care, which in turn weakens its beneficial effects on well-being (BMJ Open, 2021). This finding highlights a common challenge: guilt or internal resistance toward self-care may arise when it feels difficult, but the evidence clearly points to self-care as a key mediator that improves psychological health when regularly enacted. Rather than being selfish, self-care has a vital role in preserving wellness across life’s demands.

Loving Me

by LeeAnn Mason

I am removing the labels and stories that defined me

I am healing the child I am setting them free

I have been broken I have been beaten but they’re not going to win

I am choosing to stand up to heal from within

I am safe to feel

I am safe to heal

I am am loving me

I release what no longer serves me

I receive all that God created me to be

I am choosing the unique strengths God gave me

I am choosing to love and heal to serve myself free

I have overcome the strife

I give gratitude to every part of my life

I no longer beg I no longer fight

I claim my power, love and light

I am safe to feel

I am safe to heal

I release what no longer serves me. 

I receive all god created me to be

I am am loving me

I set myself free

Created by LeeAnn Mason/Beyond Possibilities LLC with AI.


Reference List

Ayala, E. E., Winseman, J. S., & Johnsen, R. D. (2018). U.S. medical students who engage in self-care report less stress and higher quality of life. BMC Medical Education, 18, 189. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12909-018-1296-x

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