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Energy Healing, Essential Oils, Family Life Education, Healing Journey, Health, Self-Discovery

Learning To Love Me – Selfcare Without Guilt

Beyond Possibilities

I grew up hating my self. There was not anything about me that someone did not tell me I need to do differently. I was a Tommy Boy, over weight, struggled with reading and school (diagnosed with dyslexia in the 3rd grade). I tried to change who I was to fit the many influences. But with a select few friends I was able to just be me. I will forever be grateful to Kim and her family who never tried to change anything. They just loved me.

Unfortunately, I fell in love with someone who I thought loved me too, but as soon as we were married, he wanted me to change everything about me. His abuse started off with verbal abuse which then turned sexual and then physical.

Amazingly, Joseph saw me. When he told me that he could see himself married to me, I tried to tell him how broken I was. I did not believe I was loveable and I did not love myself. I was ashamed of who I was and what I have been through.

Joseph and I married in 1999, we started a family. He saw through my trauma and triggers and he encouraged me to get help. He was my soft place to fall when I was not strong enough to stand.

While working for Two Little Hands Products they offered the employees training that was a self-discovery seminar. Joseph also went through the seminar and that is where everything started changing. Not changing because someone was telling me I needed to be different, but because I started learning that there was nothing wrong with me. My past was just what happened not who I was.

A friend I made during the seminar gave me the book “Remembering Wholeness” by Carol Tuttle. Joseph, got it for me on Audible so I could listen and follow along. I learned how to reconnect to my spiritual roots, to stop identifying myself through the eyes of others, my past, my fears and my failures. I learned that my thoughts shape my reality. I started following her work, I learned EFT and started learning more about other energy-clearing techniques.

For the first time I started love learning. The more I listened while following with books the easier reading became. I still us that technique as I have much better understanding and recall when I listen and follow along. I also started asking who God saw me as and what he needed me to become.

Along this journey, I started using essential oils and in October of 2013 I became a doTERRA Wellness Advocate. At my first doTERRA Convention, I felt inspired to start blogging about my experiences with mental health and abuse. Joseph was my biggest supported as I started sharing. But not everyone in my life where as supportive.  In 2014 I became Certified as an AromaDance Instructor and Certified in AromaTouch Technique. In January of 2018 I became Certified Essential Oil Coach. This allowed me to see that I could do hard things. I kept finding things that interested me and that helped me learn more about myself.

Over 10 years ago Mary Lambert – Secrets became my theme song. I no longer care if people know about my past and my insecurities.

In 2019, Ronai Brumett introduced me to the work of Bradley Nelson and the Emotion Code. In May of 2020 I completed my Emotion Code Practitioner Certification. In July of 2021 I completed my Body Code Certification.

In January of 2022, I started something I never thought I would do. I want back to school to get my degree. Although I loved learning college is hard. While doing college in n July of 2024 I completed my Belief Code Certification. In October 2025 I completed my Associate of Applied Science in Family and Human Services from Brigham Young University Idaho.

Along the way I started learning to love myself. I am not perfect at it. I spent over 40 years hating a lot of things about myself. As I have used the skills I have learned with Essential Oils, Emotion Code, Body Code, Belief Code, AromaDance, Mindful Movement, and through my college education I have release things that no longer serve me and I started loving pieces of myself. I am a work in process and I am grateful for who I am.

For one of my class projects I focused on selfcare without the guilt. This was not easy, but over the 4 weeks I started seeing the benefits of taking care of myself first. I discovered that self-care is not selfish—it is foundational. It is the fuel that supports your mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to show up fully in your life rather than running on empty. When you honor your need for rest, nourishment, connection, and regulation, you are not taking away from others—you are strengthening your capacity to love, serve, create, and heal. Self-care is an act of wisdom, stewardship, and self-respect.

I have created a journal to help you do what I did for myself.

Selfcare JournalDownload


During the process I have found what selfcare method support me for different situation. Dance is one of my best tool. Along the way I came across two more theme song for my journey. I am grateful for the Positivity Able Heart is putting out into the world. I think we are kindred spirits. Give them a listen.

As I began practicing self-care intentionally—without guilt, without justification, and without waiting until everything else was done—I noticed something profound: my capacity to cope, connect, and heal expanded. What started as a deeply personal journey slowly became something I wanted to understand more fully. I didn’t just want to know that self-care felt helpful—I wanted to know whether it was supported, especially for those of us who have lived with trauma, burnout, or years of believing our needs didn’t matter.

What I discovered was validating and freeing: modern, peer-reviewed research consistently shows that self-care is not selfish, indulgent, or optional—it is foundational. The very practices we are often taught to feel guilty for—rest, emotional regulation, boundaries, reflection, and nourishment—are the same practices shown to protect mental health, reduce stress and burnout, and support long-term resilience. Science now confirms what many of us learn the hard way: caring for ourselves is not taking away from others; it is what allows us to show up fully, sustainably, and authentically.

The research below helps remove guilt from self-care by reframing it as a necessary, evidence-based component of well-being. It supports what this journal is designed to do—help you honor your needs without shame, choose care without apology, and understand that tending to your mind, body, and spirit is not a failure of strength, but an expression of it.

Self-care practices—intentional actions individuals take to maintain or improve their physical, mental, and emotional health—have been consistently linked to improved psychological well-being and reduced stress. Research indicates that engaging regularly in activities such as mindfulness, physical rest, and holistic health behaviors strengthens resilience and mitigates the effects of stress, burnout, and psychological distress across diverse populations (Tushe, 2025). For example, studies show that structured self-care activities such as mindfulness training can significantly decrease stress and burnout while enhancing psychological resilience in students and professionals alike, suggesting that these practices function as protective factors in the face of ongoing demands rather than indulgences (Chen et al., 2025; Kwon, 2023). This evidence underscores self-care as a proactive lifestyle component that supports long-term adaptive functioning rather than a luxury reserved for the “less busy.”

Empirical research further demonstrates that self-care supports emotional regulation and mental well-being by fostering mindful awareness and self-compassion, which are associated with better stress management and interpersonal functioning. Systematic reviews and meta-analyses find that regular engagement in mindful self-care practices correlates with positive mental health outcomes, including increased self-acceptance, emotional balance, and reduced burnout symptoms in various helping professions (Monroe et al., 2021; moment). These outcomes show that self-care enables individuals to remain present, manage daily stressors effectively, and engage with life more fully—not because they are indulgent, but because they build essential psychological capacities that sustain performance, relationships, and overall health.

Importantly, research also highlights that self-care is not equally easy to adopt in conditions of elevated stress, which can paradoxically make people feel guilt or pressure when they struggle to practice it. Studies examining self-care behaviors during stressful situations such as the COVID-19 pandemic show that higher perceived stress can negatively impact the likelihood of engaging in self-care, which in turn weakens its beneficial effects on well-being (BMJ Open, 2021). This finding highlights a common challenge: guilt or internal resistance toward self-care may arise when it feels difficult, but the evidence clearly points to self-care as a key mediator that improves psychological health when regularly enacted. Rather than being selfish, self-care has a vital role in preserving wellness across life’s demands.

Loving Me

by LeeAnn Mason

I am removing the labels and stories that defined me

I am healing the child I am setting them free

I have been broken I have been beaten but they’re not going to win

I am choosing to stand up to heal from within

I am safe to feel

I am safe to heal

I am am loving me

I release what no longer serves me

I receive all that God created me to be

I am choosing the unique strengths God gave me

I am choosing to love and heal to serve myself free

I have overcome the strife

I give gratitude to every part of my life

I no longer beg I no longer fight

I claim my power, love and light

I am safe to feel

I am safe to heal

I release what no longer serves me. 

I receive all god created me to be

I am am loving me

I set myself free

Created by LeeAnn Mason/Beyond Possibilities LLC with AI.

Reference List

Ayala, E. E., Winseman, J. S., & Johnsen, R. D. (2018). U.S. medical students who engage in self-care report less stress and higher quality of life. BMC Medical Education, 18, 189. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12909-018-1296-x

Chen, S., Qi, X., & colleagues. (2025). A randomized controlled trial of mindfulness: Effects on academic stress, academic burnout, and psychological resilience in university students. Frontiers in Psychology. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2025.1722669

Kwon, J. (2023). Self-care for nurses who care for others: The effectiveness of meditation as a self-care strategy. Religions, 14(1), 90. https://doi.org/10.3390/rel14010090

Monroe, C., Loresto, F., Horton-Deutsch, S., Kleiner, C., Eron, K., Varney, R., & Grimm, S. (2021). The value of intentional self-care practices: The effects of mindfulness on improving job satisfaction, teamwork, and workplace environments. Archives of Psychiatric Nursing, 35(2), 189–194. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.apnu.2020.10.003

BMJ Open. (2021). Relationship between self-care activities, stress and well-being during COVID-19 lockdown: A cross-cultural mediation model. BMJ Open, 11(12), e048469. https://bmjopen.bmj.com/content/11/12/e048469

Tushe, M. (2025). The role of self-care practices in mental health and well-being: A comprehensive review. Journal of Nephrology & Endocrinology Research, SRC/JONE-148.

How Dance Moves Emotions: The Science Behind Movement
Essential Oils, Health, Self-Discovery

How Dance Moves Emotions: The Science Behind Movement

Beyond Possibilities

Music begins. The body responds. Before words form, emotion is already in motion.

Dance has long been a language of the heart—used across cultures to express joy, grief, celebration, and release. Today, science confirms what many have felt intuitively: when we move rhythmically, we don’t just exercise the body—we process emotion, regulate stress, and reconnect with ourselves.

A growing body of science shows that participating in dance can improve mood, reduce anxiety and depression, and enhance emotional regulation across ages and settings. A growing body of science shows that participating in dance can improve mood, reduce anxiety and depression, and enhance emotional regulation across ages and settings.

What Science Says About Dance and Emotional Well‑Being

Dance Improves Mood and Reduces Anxiety and Depression

Scientific reviews of dance interventions report significant reductions in symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress compared with no‑dance control conditions. Across multiple dance styles—from tango to Latin dance—participants consistently show improvements in mood and overall mental health (Koch, 2023).

Meta‑analytic findings further indicate that dance is equally or more effective than other forms of physical activity for improving quality of life and reducing anxiety and depressive symptoms. These outcomes are thought to be driven by dance’s unique blend of rhythmic movement, creative expression, and social engagement (Mann et al., 2023).

Among older adults, dance interventions have also been shown to improve mental health indicators, including depressive symptoms and neuropsychiatric outcomes, highlighting dance as a valuable, accessible approach across the lifespan (Taber et al., 2023).

Dance Supports Emotional Regulation

Dance Movement Therapy (DMT)—a structured, clinical application of movement—has been examined for its role in emotional regulation. Scientific reviews indicate that DMT supports emotional integration, expression, and regulation by engaging the body as a pathway to emotional processing (Smith & Jones, 2024).

Dance Enhances Social Connection and Positive Emotion

Science also demonstrates that dance supports social bonding and positive affect. Group dance participation has been associated with increased social connection and emotional well‑being when compared with other creative activities, suggesting that shared movement amplifies emotional resilience (Lee et al., 2025).

Key Findings from the Science

  • Improved mood and reduced depressive symptoms following dance participation (Koch, 2023; Mann et al., 2023)
  • Decreased anxiety and stress across diverse populations (Koch, 2023; Taber et al., 2023)
  • Enhanced emotional regulation and expression through embodied movement (Smith & Jones, 2024)
  • Increased social connection and positive emotional states (Lee et al., 2025)

How Dance Influences Emotions

1. Movement and Emotion Are Neurologically Linked

Dance combines aerobic activity with expressive movement, activating neurochemical pathways associated with improved mood while allowing emotions to be physically expressed and processed (Koch, 2023).

2. Embodied Awareness Supports Emotional Regulation

By engaging rhythm, coordination, and body awareness, dance naturally recruits attention and executive functioning. This embodied focus supports greater emotional control and integration, as observed in therapeutic movement settings (Smith & Jones, 2024).

3. Connection Through Movement Enhances Emotional Health

Dancing with others introduces social interaction that amplifies positive affect and reduces isolation—an important contributor to emotional well‑being (Lee et al., 2025).

How to Use Dance and Aroma Together: A Simple Practice

Whether dancing alone at home or in a group setting, pairing intentional movement with aromatic support can deepen emotional awareness and release.

A simple practice:

  1. Choose music that matches your emotional intention (uplifting, grounding, expressive, calming).
  2. Add a diffuser blend that complements that intention.
  3. Begin with gentle movement, allowing your body to respond naturally to the rhythm.
  4. Focus on breath and sensation rather than choreography.
  5. Close with stillness, noticing emotional shifts.

This approach works well for personal self-care, group classes, or emotional wellness sessions.

doTERRA Diffuser Blends to Support Emotional Experience While Dancing

Aromatherapy can support emotional states that complement the benefits of dance. The following doTERRA diffuser blends are designed to enhance mood, focus, grounding, and connection while dancing. Use essential oils according to safety guidelines.

Joyful Motion Blend

  • 3 drops Citrus Bliss®
  • 2 drops Lavender
  • 2 drops Bergamot

Supports uplifting energy and emotional lightness.

Flow State Dance Blend

  • 3 drops Wild Orange
  • 2 drops Peppermint
  • 1 drop Ylang Ylang

Encourages focus, rhythm, and creative flow.

Grounded Expression Blend

  • 3 drops Frankincense
  • 2 drops Balance®
  • 1 drop Vetiver

Promotes grounding and body‑mind connection.

Calm Release Blend

  • 3 drops Serenity®
  • 2 drops Roman Chamomile
  • 1 drop Lavender

Supports stress reduction and emotional release.

Connect and Socialize Blend

  • 3 drops Bergamot
  • 2 drops Wild Orange
  • 2 drops Birch

Encourages positive social energy and shared joy.

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Closing Thoughts

Science continues to affirm what many feel intuitively: dance is a powerful emotional tool. By integrating physical movement, creative expression, and social connection, dance supports emotional health in ways that extend far beyond exercise. When paired with intentional aromatherapy using doTERRA essential oils, dance becomes a holistic, heart‑centered practice for emotional well‑being.

If this topic resonates with you and you’d like to explore movement and emotions more deeply, I invite you to continue the journey through other blogs here on Beyond Possibilities. You’ll find additional reflections and practices on mindful movement, AromaDance, and how emotions live and release through the body. Each piece builds on the understanding that when we move with intention, we create space for healing, clarity, and connection—one breath and one movement at a time.

Previous Resources on Movement, Emotion & Expressive Practices

AromaDance
A deep look at AromaDance as a modality that combines essential oils with expressive movement to release stress, encourage creative flow, and open emotional expression through movement.
Read it here: https://beyond-possibilities.net/mentoring-and-classes/aromadance/

Movement and Emotion: The Science of Feeling Through Motion
A thoughtful exploration of how emotions are embodied, how movement (including dance) affects the autonomic nervous system, and practical movement techniques to support emotional regulation and resiliency.
Read it here: https://beyond-possibilities.net/2025/10/17/movement-and-emotion-the-science-of-feeling-through-motion/

From Stuck to Free: Transform Your Wellness Journey with Mind-Body Practices
A holistic wellness post that includes how movement and dance release stagnant energy, improve mind-body connection, and support emotional well-being alongside meditation, aromatherapy, and energy healing.
Read it here: https://beyond-possibilities.net/2025/03/05/from-stuck-to-free-transform-your-wellness-journey-with-mind-body-practices/

Music, Movement, and Mood – Just Dance (linked within Mindful Movement Classes page)
A resource referenced on the Mindful Movement Classes page, offering an introduction to how music and spontaneous dance can uplift mood and release emotion. (Note: this is linked from the class description rather than a standalone blog post.)
Explore Mindful Movement Classes here: https://beyond-possibilities.net/mentoring-and-classes/mindful-movement-classes/

FDA Compliance Note

The information shared in this article is intended for educational purposes only. Essential oils are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Individual responses to aromatherapy may vary. Always follow manufacturer safety guidelines when using essential oils, especially around children, pets, or individuals with sensitivities.

References (APA 7)

Koch, S. (2023). Evidence of the effects of dance interventions on adults’ mental health: A systematic review. Frontiers in Psychology, 14, 1180566. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37287281/

Mann, L., et al. (2023). The effectiveness of dance interventions on psychological and cognitive health outcomes compared with other physical activity. Arts & Health. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38270792/

Taber, A., et al. (2023). Effects of dance therapy on cognitive and mental health in adults aged 55+ with mild cognitive impairment: A systematic review and meta‑analysis. BMC Geriatrics, 23, 553. https://bmcgeriatr.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12877-023-04406-y

Smith, J., & Jones, R. (2024). The role of dance movement therapy in enhancing emotional regulation: A literature review. The Arts in Psychotherapy. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39170197/

Lee, H., et al. (2025). The impact of performing arts on mental health, social connection, and creativity in university students: A randomized controlled trial. BMC Public Health, 25, 312. https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-025-22552-3

Healing Journey, Making a Difference, Self-Discovery

Cultivating Gratitude in November — And Beyond

Beyond Possibilities

The crisp November air holds a subtle invitation: to pause, inhale deeply, and turn the gaze inward with a heartfelt “thank you.” I am grateful for those who trust me as their mentor, Essential Oil Coach, and Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code Practitioner. I am thankful to those who follow me on the various platforms and hope you find value in what I share. Thank you for joining me on this journey.

As the golden leaves shift into quiet rest, so too can we shift from doing to being grateful. For many years I’ve taken this month to share one daily gratitude post on social media—and this year I’m inviting you to join me. Let’s explore why this matters: the science of gratitude, how it influences our health, and how simple daily practice can ripple into our wellbeing and community.

Why Gratitude Matters: The Research Story

Gratitude is more than a feel-good notion. In psychological science it’s defined as “the appreciation of what is valuable and meaningful to oneself; a general state of thankfulness and/or appreciation” (Wood, Joseph, Lloyd, & Atkins, 2009).

Here are several evidence-based benefits:

1. Mental & Emotional Wellbeing

  • Gratitude correlates with greater happiness, more positive emotions, and improved life satisfaction (Harvard Health, 2021).
  • A meta-analysis of 64 randomized trials found gratitude interventions led to significant improvements in mental health: fewer symptoms of anxiety (−7.8 %) and depression (−6.9 %) (Jans-Beken et al., 2022).
  • Gratitude writing specifically (vs. general expressive writing) decreased stress and negative affect in a one-month follow-up (Schanche et al., 2020).

2. Physical Health & Sleep

  • Gratitude is associated with better sleep quality, reduced fatigue, fewer physical symptoms, and improved cardiovascular markers (Harvard Health, 2024).
  • Individuals with higher dispositional gratitude report greater vitality, less anxiety, and better self-rated physical health (Hill & Roberts, 2011).

3. Brain, Body, and Neural Pathways

  • Neuroscientific work shows gratitude activates brain regions tied to reward, social bonding, and emotional regulation (Fox et al., 2015).
  • Gratitude journaling helps “rewire” the brain—shifting attention toward noticing positives and strengthening social connections (The Resilience Project, 2023).

4. Relationships & Community

  • Gratitude strengthens social ties. Expressing thanks signals that we’ve received value from someone else, fostering trust, connection, and prosocial behavior (Greater Good Science Center, 2016).
  • The ripple extends beyond the individual; by nurturing gratitude, we also nurture environments of appreciation, kindness, and resilience.

How This Matters for You — And for Us Together

As I share my daily “gratitude” posts throughout November with you, here’s what I’m inviting—and what you might discover:

  • Resilience under pressure. Life brings stress, uncertainty, pain—yet research shows gratitude buffers against anxiety, depressive symptoms, and even lowers physical complaints.
  • Foundational self-care. While we often think of self-care as what we do (exercise, essential oils, sleep routines), gratitude is what we become—an orientation, a noticing.
  • Embodied payoff. Better sleep, less fatigue, improved mood—these aren’t extras; they’re foundational to showing up fully in your life, relationships, and purpose.
  • Shared transformation. When you join the daily gratitude practice with me, we create a collective momentum—a shared shift toward noticing, naming, and appreciating the good. That communal energy amplifies the individual benefits.

How to Participate: A Simple Framework

Here’s how you can join in this year’s November gratitude journey—with flexibility built in so it fits you.

  1. Download your free Gratitude Journal. (below)
    Begin by downloading my Beyond Possibilities Gratitude Journal, designed to guide your daily reflections and deepen your awareness of what’s good in your life. It includes space for 3–10 daily gratitude entries, inspiring prompts, and weekly reflection pages. (Download link coming soon!)
  2. Choose your medium.
    Whether it’s your downloaded journal, a digital notes app, or a social-media post—pick the format you’ll stick with.
  3. Keep it manageable.
    Research suggests that recording 3 to 10 items per day tends to produce optimal benefits (more than 10 may dilute impact).
    • For example: “I’m grateful today for…” followed by 3–5 things.
    • You may also pick a theme of the day (health, connection, nature, small joys, acts of kindness).
  4. Be honest & intentional.
    Gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring challenges—it means also noticing what’s good despite them. Authenticity matters more than perfection.
    • A suggested prompt: “What happened today that I might normally overlook—and how did it matter?”
    • Another: “Who made a difference for me today—and how can I thank them?”
  5. Share the ripple.
    Post what you’re grateful for on my daily gratitude post—either on LinkedIn or Facebook.
    Join the conversation, celebrate others’ moments of gratitude, and invite friends or family to participate.
    Or share on your own social media with the hashtag #BeyondGratitude to connect our growing community of thankfulness.
  6. Reflect weekly.
    At the end of each week in November, look back—What patterns emerge? What small things became big? What surprised you? This reflective pause deepens your practice and anchors your learning.
Gratitude JournalDownload

Why This Year Feels Especially Right

Given the fullness of our lives—with our personal healing journeys, essential-oil routines, emotional body work, stress-management, and self-care practices—layering in a gratitude practice is like adding a powerful support beam under the rest of the structure. It doesn’t replace anything you’re doing; it helps everything you do work better.
Plus, once gratitude becomes a habit, its benefits persist and compound over time.

In Closing

I invite you to step into November together—each day noticing something you are grateful for, sharing it if you choose, and inviting others into the circle. Let’s watch how small moments of thanks can build into greater resilience, deeper joy, stronger relationships, and more vibrant health.

With heartfelt thanks for you—for showing up, for choosing healing, for being part of this community. Here’s to a month of gratitude, connection, and transformation.

References

Emmons, R. A., & McCullough, M. E. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 84(2), 377–389.
Fox, G. R., Kaplan, J., Damasio, H., & Damasio, A. (2015). Neural correlates of gratitude. Frontiers in Psychology, 6(1491). https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2015.01491
Greater Good Science Center. (2016). How gratitude changes you and your brain. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_gratitude_changes_you_and_your_brain
Harvard Health. (2021). Giving thanks can make you happier. https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier
Harvard Health. (2024). Gratitude enhances health, brings happiness — and may even lengthen lives. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/gratitude-enhances-health-brings-happiness-and-may-even-lengthen-lives-202409113071
Hill, P. L., & Roberts, B. W. (2011). Examining the pathways between gratitude and self-rated physical health. Psychology & Health, 26(9), 1057–1072. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3489271/
Jans-Beken, L., et al. (2022). The effects of gratitude interventions: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Frontiers in Psychology. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10393216/
Schanche, E., et al. (2020). A brief gratitude writing intervention decreased stress and negative affect. Frontiers in Psychology. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8867461/
The Resilience Project. (2023). Gratitude and the benefits of journaling. https://theresilienceproject.com.au/at-home/wellbeing-hub/gratitude-and-the-benefits-of-journaling/
Wood, A. M., Joseph, S., Lloyd, J., & Atkins, S. (2009). Gratitude influences sleep through the mechanism of pre-sleep cognitions. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 66(1), 43-48.

Energy Healing, Healing Journey, Health, Self-Discovery

Movement and Emotion: The Science of Feeling Through Motion

Beyond Possibilities

Have you ever noticed how your body naturally moves with your emotions? You bounce when you’re happy, curl in when you’re sad, or tense your shoulders when you’re stressed. These patterns aren’t random — they reflect how the brain and body communicate through posture, physiology, and feeling. Research confirms what movement and healing traditions have long understood: movement changes emotion, and emotion changes movement.

Now, before I go too deep, you don’t have to overthink it. You can work through your emotions by simply putting on your favorite music and letting your body move to the music naturally. I also love doing AromaDance or Mindful Movement to move through my emotions.

The Somatic Basis of Emotion

Emotions aren’t only “in your head.” They’re embodied experiences involving the autonomic nervous system (ANS), muscle tone, breath, and interoception — our inner sense of how our body feels. When emotions are safely expressed through movement, the body can complete its stress cycle and return to balance. Movement therapies and somatic practices (e.g., gentle stretching, dance/movement therapy, rhythmic motion) have demonstrated reductions in cortisol, enhanced emotional regulation, and improvements in psychological well-being (Koch, Morlinghaus, & Fuchs, 2019; Wu, Li, & Zhang, 2023).

Joy: Expand, Express, Energize

Open-arm reach / chest opening
Expanding posture (arms wide, chest lifted) increases lung volume, influences the balance of sympathetic and parasympathetic tone, and signals openness and approach behavior — postures correlated with higher positive affect (e.g. expanded posture studies).

Light bounce / small hops
Gentle vertical bouncing raises endorphins and dopamine and stimulates spinal and vestibular systems for autonomic regulation.

Playful skipping / side-step
Rhythmic side-to-side locomotion with arm swing boosts mood, supports motor coordination, and taps into play systems.

Wiggle / spontaneous dance
Free, irregular movement (hips, torso, shoulders) enhances body awareness (interoception), modulates autonomic tone, and can increase positive affect (Koch et al., 2019).

Shake / tremor (gentle, spontaneous)
Small tremors or shakes help discharge stored motor tension and reduce autonomic hyperarousal, as in trauma-release (TRE) approaches.

Roll (gentle floor roll → stand)
Rolling shifts vestibular input and proprioceptive orientation, helping interrupt stuck tension patterns and inviting fluidity in the body.

Fear & Anxiety: Grounding, Soothing, Calming

Tap / hum
Gentle tapping or humming engages vagal pathways (via vibration) and supports parasympathetic activation, helping calm high arousal states.

Squeeze / hold (self-hug)
Applying gentle compression through a self-hug or forearm hold reduces cortisol and signals safety through proprioceptive feedback.

Sway / reach
Slow pendular motion with gentle arm reach soothes the vestibular system and offers predictable sensory input, helping regulate hyperarousal.

Sadness / Grief / Shame: Nurturing, Soothing, Softening

Brush / self-hug (gentle stroking)
Slow, affective touch activates C-tactile afferents associated with oxytocin release and supports calming networks.

Rock / squeeze (gentle rocking)
Rocking or gentle compressive movement engages vestibular regulatory systems, offering a soothing rhythm and containment for emotional processing.

Anger / Frustration: Safe Release, Grounding Power

Tense → release (clench / relax)
Voluntary muscle contraction followed by release modulates muscle spindle activity and helps the nervous system downregulate from tension.

Stomp / ground (foot strike)
Energetic foot strikes provide strong proprioceptive feedback and anchor excess energy into the ground, giving a sense of boundary.

Slam / push (controlled directional force)
Using controlled push or strike against a safe surface (e.g., wall, pillow) enables expression of force while reducing internal pressure and reactivity.

Peace / Calm / Confidence: Stabilizing & Centering

Ground / connect (rooted stance)
Soft squats, weight awareness in feet/ankles, and slow shifts help reestablish bodily stability and downregulate sympathetic tone.

Rest / restorative posture
Lying down with deep, diaphragmatic breathing stimulates the vagus nerve and promotes parasympathetic recovery.

Center / mindful micro-movement
Very gentle motions (neck rolls, shoulder circles) enhance interoceptive clarity and soothe the system, supporting self-regulation.

Pain / Fatigue / Recovery: Soothing, Flowing, Releasing

Settle / breathe (long exhale + micro shifts)
Slow, extended exhales paired with small posture adjustments relieve muscle guarding and support relaxation.

Ground / connect (light motion)
Gentle walking or standing awareness improves circulation and sensory grounding — beneficial for fatigue and mild pain.

Stretch / yawn / gentle mobilization
Stretching or yawning modulates muscle spindle feedback and encourages relaxation and renewed energy.

Why Somatic Movement Works

  • Interoception & emotional regulation: Improving body awareness strengthens emotion regulation capacity.
  • Rhythm & vestibular input: Repetitive movements (sway, rock, bounce) help regulate the autonomic nervous system.
  • Vocal + breath stimulation: Humming, sighing, and extended exhalation activate vagal pathways.
  • Free movement & dance: Encourages fluidity, creativity, and improved affect regulation (Koch et al., 2019; Wu et al., 2023).

Final Thoughts

Our feelings naturally manifest in the body. By intentionally choosing movement that mirrors or completes those expressions, we can help the body return to balance. Whether it’s a joyful stretch, a grounding stomp, or a slow restorative breath, each movement is a doorway to recalibration and liberation.

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Honoring Your Emotions Through Trauma: Natural Pathways for Healing and Resilience

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Grief, loss, and life’s hardest traumas can feel overwhelming, leaving the heart heavy and the mind clouded. During these times, it’s not about pushing emotions away but learning how to honor and process them. By combining natural approaches—such as breathwork, journaling, meditation, energy healing, and aromatherapy—we can create supportive spaces for healing. These practices, rooted in both tradition and research, help release what weighs us down while building emotional resilience.

Energy Healing for Emotional Release

Many people hold unresolved emotions in the body, leading to stress, pain, and imbalance. Energy healing techniques like the Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code are designed to release these emotional burdens.

  • Emotion Code focuses on identifying and clearing trapped emotions that may contribute to anxiety, sadness, or tension. In a study with 146 participants, significant reductions in self-reported depression, anxiety, and PTSD symptoms were observed after sessions with this modality, though more controlled research is needed (Gelb et al., 2021).
  • Body Code expands this approach to include physical, energetic, and structural imbalances that can affect overall wellness.
  • Belief Code addresses limiting subconscious beliefs that may keep people stuck in cycles of grief or pain. Once emotional barriers are released, healthier thought patterns can emerge.

While scientific validation continues to grow, these approaches align with widely accepted psychological concepts of mind-body connection and the importance of processing emotions rather than storing them internally (Bucci, 2025).

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Natural Tools for Emotional Healing

Breathwork

Breathwork helps regulate the nervous system and calm emotional reactivity. By slowing and deepening the breath, the body shifts from a fight-or-flight state into a calmer, more restorative mode.

Journaling

Writing out feelings provides clarity and helps organize overwhelming emotions. Journaling offers a safe space to name experiences, uncover insights, and begin reframing grief into meaning.

Meditation

Meditation practices—whether focused attention, mindfulness, or loving-kindness—help reduce distress and promote emotional stability. Neuroimaging studies show that meditation activates brain regions linked to empathy and regulation, such as the insula and anterior cingulate cortex (Fox et al., 2016).

Aromatherapy with doTERRA CPTG® Essential Oils*

Scent has a direct influence on the limbic system, the part of the brain that governs emotions and memories. Using doTERRA Certified Pure Tested Grade (CPTG®) essential oils can provide powerful emotional support during times of grief:

  • Console® Comforting Blend (Rose, Ylang Ylang, Frankincense, Sandalwood) offers calming, balancing support when sadness feels heavy.
  • Forgive® Renewing Blend (Nootka Tree, Thyme, Melissa) encourages self-compassion and renewal during emotional recovery.
  • Cheer® Uplifting Blend (Wild Orange, Cinnamon Bark, Star Anise) sparks optimism and helps shift lingering gloom.
  • Bergamot Essential Oil has shown promise in reducing PTSD-related symptoms such as sleep disruption and negative mood in first responders (Daniel, 2023).
  • Lime Essential Oil has been shown to imbue the soul with a zest for life and promotes courage. It is renewing, energizing and purify. Paired with other oils it magnifies their effect.
  • Balance® Grounding Blend The warm, woody aroma of doTERRA Balance Grounding Blend helps create a calming, quieting environment as you consider all aspects of life: relationships, work, fitness, health, and emotional well-being.
  • Peace® Reassuming Blend A gentle blend of floral and mint oils, doTERRA Peace Reassuring Blend serves as a positive reminder that you don’t have to be perfect to find peace.

From a biochemical perspective, compounds like linalool (Lavender, Clary Sage) and beta-pinene (Lemon, Lime, White Fir) interact with neurotransmitter systems linked to serotonin and dopamine, potentially easing anxious or sad feelings (doTERRA, n.d.-b).

While results vary, aromatherapy remains a gentle, non-invasive complement to emotional healing practices. Safety should always be prioritized, including dilution for topical use and sourcing oils from reputable providers such as doTERRA (Johns Hopkins Medicine, 2024).

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Bringing It All Together

Honoring emotions during grief and trauma means allowing space for release, reflection, and renewal. Breathwork, journaling, meditation, energy healing, and essential oils each offer unique pathways toward peace. Together, they create a holistic framework for processing heavy feelings while building resilience for the road ahead.

Healing is not about forgetting loss—it’s about finding light in the darkness and carrying forward with strength and compassion.

*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

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