Essential Oils, Family Life Education, Self-Discovery

Why Resolutions Don’t Work — And What Actually Does

Every year, resolutions promise transformation. Eat better. Move more. Be more disciplined. And every year, many of those promises quietly dissolve, often replaced with guilt, frustration, and the belief that something is wrong with you.

But science tells a different story.

Resolutions don’t fail because people lack motivation or willpower. They fail because they are built on systems that ignore how the human body, brain, and nervous system actually create lasting change.

This is your permission slip to stop forcing yourself into frameworks that were never designed for your body, your strengths, or your life — and instead choose approaches that honor how change truly works.


The Resolution Myth

Traditional resolutions rely on rigid goals, arbitrary start dates, and outcome-focused expectations. While the idea of a “fresh start” can temporarily boost motivation, research shows that temporal landmarks alone do not sustain long-term behavior change without supportive structures embedded into daily life (Kooij et al., 2015).

Many resolutions are also vague (“be healthier”) or overly ambitious, leaving no clear path for action. When setbacks occur — as they inevitably do — people often interpret them as personal failure rather than part of the learning process. This mindset increases stress and disengagement, making consistency less likely.


Why Willpower Isn’t the Answer

Sustainable change is not a function of force. It is a function of conditions.

Behavioral science consistently shows that habits stick when they are:

  • Small and repeatable
  • Anchored to existing routines
  • Supported by emotional regulation and internal motivation

When stress levels are high, the brain prioritizes survival over growth. Under these conditions, willpower is unreliable. This is why systems rooted in guilt and pressure tend to collapse — they activate stress responses rather than support learning and adaptation.


Mindset, Self-Talk, and the Body: What the Science Shows

Research in mind-body medicine demonstrates that cognitive and emotional states meaningfully influence the physiological environments in which healing and change occur. Harvard Health Publishing has documented that the brain and immune system communicate bidirectionally, meaning thoughts, emotions, and stress perception can influence immune signaling, inflammation, and recovery processes (Harvard Health Publishing, n.d.).

Expanding on this connection, Harvard psychologist Ellen Langer’s work on mindfulness and perception has shown that psychological framing can measurably affect physical outcomes. In controlled research, altered perceptions of time significantly influenced the rate of physical healing, including bruise recovery, underscoring the role of awareness and expectation in bodily processes (Aungle & Langer, 2023).

Further supporting this, contemporary reviews of self-talk research demonstrate that intentional internal dialogue improves emotional regulation, stress resilience, and behavioral consistency — all factors that indirectly but powerfully support physical wellbeing by shaping nervous system responses and health-related behaviors (Brinthaupt & Morin, 2023).

Taken together, this evidence reframes change entirely: sustainable transformation does not emerge from self-criticism or force, but from cultivating internal conditions — safety, supportive self-talk, and reduced stress — that allow the body to function as designed.


Foundational Wellness Over Forced Change

Rather than resolutions that demand perfection, research supports foundational practices that build resilience and capacity over time:

  • Consistent sleep and recovery
  • Nourishment that stabilizes energy and mood
  • Gentle, repeatable movement
  • Emotional regulation and stress support

When these foundations are in place, behavior change becomes less about discipline and more about momentum.


Movement That Feels Good Actually Lasts

Movement is often positioned as punishment for not being “enough.” Science tells a different story.

Positive emotional responses to movement are among the strongest predictors of long-term adherence. Meta-analytic research shows that when physical activity is experienced as enjoyable rather than aversive, individuals are significantly more likely to sustain it over time (Rhodes et al., 2021). Moderate, self-selected activities — such as walking, gentle strength training, or mindful movement — consistently produce more positive affect than high-intensity approaches that may feel overwhelming, particularly early on.

Additionally, environments that support autonomy, competence, and connection further enhance intrinsic motivation and enjoyment, reinforcing consistency without relying on pressure or obligation (Boiché & Sarrazin, 2013).

Simply put: consistency grows from enjoyment, not punishment.

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Supportive Tools for Sustainable Change: Essential Oils and Supportive Research

While behavior change is primarily psychological and neurological, supportive tools can meaningfully improve the internal and external environments in which habits grow. When stress is reduced and emotional regulation is supported, the body is better positioned to sustain consistent, health-supportive behaviors. Within this context, aromatherapy and essential oils have been studied for their effects on stress perception, mood regulation, sleep quality, and nervous system balance.

Stress, Mood, and Sleep Support

Randomized controlled trials have demonstrated that inhalation of specific essential oil blends can significantly reduce perceived stress and improve sleep quality — two foundational elements for recovery, emotional regulation, and sustainable behavior change. Improved sleep and reduced stress are strongly associated with better adherence to wellness routines, improved mood stability, and enhanced capacity for habit formation (Kim et al., 2017; Lee et al., 2021). These findings support the use of aromatherapy as a complementary practice to help lower physiological stress load and support restorative processes essential for long-term change.

Nervous System Effects

Scoping reviews of essential oil research indicate measurable effects on emotional modulation, anxiety reduction, stress regulation, sleep quality, and mental fatigue. These effects are believed to occur primarily through olfactory and respiratory pathways that influence limbic system activity and neurochemical signaling involved in emotional and autonomic regulation (de Rapper et al., 2023). By supporting nervous system balance, aromatherapy may reduce friction around daily wellness behaviors and improve consistency without relying on force or willpower.

AromaTouch® Technique Research

Pilot trials examining structured essential oil application procedures, such as the AromaTouch® Technique, have demonstrated enhanced relaxation responses and reductions in biomarkers associated with stress and inflammation when compared to control touch procedures (Bennett et al., 2017). These findings suggest that intentional, rhythmic application of essential oils combined with touch may further support parasympathetic activation, contributing to improved recovery and emotional regulation.

Importantly, evidence consistently supports essential oils as supportive tools, not drivers, of personal transformation. They assist the environment of change — reducing stress, supporting emotional balance, and improving recovery — rather than acting as the cause of behavioral or psychological change. When used alongside aligned mindset work, movement that feels good, and foundational wellness practices, essential oils can help make sustainable change feel more accessible and embodied.


A New Way Forward

This is not about lowering standards. It is about raising self-respect.

When you stop forcing yourself into systems that rely on guilt and willpower, and instead build change around how your body and brain actually work, something shifts.

Change becomes kinder.
More realistic.
And far more sustainable.


References (APA 7)

AromaTouch® technique trial:
Author(s). (Year). Immediate and lasting effects of the dōTERRA AromaTouch Technique on autonomic function and biomarkers: A pilot trial. Journal of Integrative Medicine and Therapy. avensonline.org

Aungle, P., & Langer, E. J. (2023). Physical healing as a function of perceived time. Scientific Reports, 13, Article 18454. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-023-45393-2

Behavior change and motivation theory:
Alberts, L., Lyngs, U., & Lukoff, K. (2024). Designing for sustained motivation: A review of Self-Determination Theory in behaviour change technologies. arXiv. arXiv

Boiché, J., & Sarrazin, P. (2013). Peers’ influence on exercise enjoyment: A self-determination theory approach. Psychology of Sport and Exercise, 14(4), 461–468. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24150130/

Brinthaupt, T. M., & Morin, A. (2023). Self-talk: Research challenges and opportunities. Frontiers in Psychology, 14, 1210960. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1210960

Essential oil nervous system effects scoping review:
de Rapper, S., et al. (Year). The effects of essential oils on the nervous system: A scoping review. PubMed summary. PubMed

Harvard Health Publishing. (n.d.). Can our brain talk to our immune system? Harvard Medical School. https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/can-our-brain-talk-to-our-immune-system

Kooij, A., et al. (2015). Temporal landmarks and aspirational behavior. Management Science, 61(11), 2695–2714.

Lee, J. A., et al. (2021). Effect of aromatherapy on sleep quality of adults and elderly people: A systematic literature review and meta-analysis. Complementary Therapies in Medicine, 60, 102739. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ctim.2021.102739

Resolution success longitudinal data:
University research summary. (2025). New Year’s resolution adherence statistics. UNSW Newsroom. UNSW Sites

Rhodes, R. E., et al. (2021). Affective and enjoyment responses to physical activity: A meta-analysis. Health Psychology Review, 15(2), 167–186. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34112041/

Studies on inhalation aromatherapy effects on stress, sleep quality, and mood:
Kim, H. J., et al. (2017). The effects of aromatherapy essential oil inhalation on stress, sleep quality, and depression in healthy adults. European Journal of Integrative Medicine, 12, 79–86. ScienceDirect

Xu, J., et al. (2025). The effects of Rosa damascena aromatherapy on anxiety, stress, hemodynamics, and sleep: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Frontiers in Public Health. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41262694/

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Modern Healing With Ancient Oils: Bringing the Oils of the Bible Into Daily Life

How doTERRA essential oils help us nurture mind, body & spirit today

There is something sacred about opening a bottle of oil and feeling instantly connected — not just to nature, but to the very same plants God wove into Scripture thousands of years ago.

These oils aren’t only relics of the past.
They’re part of God’s original design for wellness, and today, with doTERRA’s purity and potency, we get to bring them into our homes, routines, and healing practices in ways that feel deeply supportive and beautifully aligned with modern life.

Below is your guide to the Oils of the Bible with their Scriptural roots and their modern wellness benefits — a perfect companion to your original blog.


🌿 SANDALWOOD (Aloes)

Scriptures: Numbers 24:6; Psalm 45:8; Proverbs 7:17; Song of Solomon 4:14; John 19:39

A deeply grounding, calming oil — just as meaningful today as it was in ancient worship rituals.

Modern uses:
• Enhances meditation, prayer, and mindfulness
• Smooths fine lines and supports mature or dry skin
• Promotes deep, restorative sleep
• Calms a racing mind
• Lovely in personal fragrance blends


🌿 CASSIA

Scriptures: Exodus 30:24; Ezekiel 27:19; Psalm 45:8

Warm, spicy, and comforting — Cassia brings courage, confidence, and a sense of emotional strength.

Modern uses:
• Supports healthy metabolic function
• Uplifts mood and emotional warmth
• Wonderful for non-toxic home cleaning sprays
• Adds warmth to diffuser blends
• Supports digestion and overall wellness


🌿 CEDARWOOD

Scriptures: Leviticus 14; Numbers 19

Symbolic of protection and stability — Cedarwood feels like an instant grounding embrace.

Modern uses:
• Deep relaxation and bedtime support
• Helps quiet mental chatter
• Encourages emotional safety and groundedness
• Supports healthy hair and scalp
• Natural insect-repelling aroma


🌿 CYPRESS

Scriptures: Genesis 6:14; Isaiah 41:19; 44:14; 1 Kings 9:11; Song of Solomon 1:17

Cypress embodies movement, flow, and renewal — a beautiful companion for both physical and emotional transitions.

Modern uses:
• Supports healthy circulation
• Helps with leg fatigue or heaviness
• Encourages emotional release
• Supports lymphatic flow
• Lovely for breathwork and grounding practices


🌿 FRANKINCENSE

Scriptures: Multiple references throughout OT & NT; Matthew 2:11

Often called the “king of oils,” Frankincense remains one of the most versatile wellness tools available today.

Modern uses:
• Supports healthy cellular function
• Calms anxious feelings and overthinking
• Enhances meditation, prayer, and focus
• Nourishes and brightens skin
• Encourages emotional balance
• Supports immunity and overall wellness


🌿 MYRRH

Scriptures: Genesis 37:25; Esther 2:12; Song of Solomon; Matthew 2:11; John 19:39

An oil of comfort, grounding, and emotional steadiness — especially helpful in times of stress or transition.

Modern uses:
• Deep hydration for dry or irritated skin
• Supports healthy gums and oral care
• Calms emotional overwhelm
• Supports postpartum recovery and feminine wellness
• Centers the heart for prayer or journaling


🌿 SPIKENARD (NARD)

Scriptures: Song of Solomon; Matthew 26; Mark 14; John 12

A deeply soothing, earthy oil known for encouraging rest — emotionally and physically.

Modern uses:
• Supports relaxation and emotional release
• Promotes deeper rest and nighttime unwinding
• Calms the nervous system
• Gentle for skincare when blended properly
• Supports quiet reflection and peace


🌿 LAVENDER

(Possibly the “nard” mentioned in Scripture)

Scriptural references are debated, but many scholars connect Lavender to the traditions surrounding anointing and purification.

Modern uses:
• Calms anxious thoughts
• Supports peaceful sleep
• Soothes skin irritations
• Helps with head tension
• Gently supports digestion
• A foundational oil for emotional balance


💧 A Few Beautiful Ways to Use These Oils Together Today

🌟 For Stress & Nervous System Reset

Frankincense + Cedarwood + Lavender
Diffuse or apply diluted to pulse points.

🌟 For Grounding During Devotional Time

Sandalwood + Myrrh + Cypress
Place over the heart or back of the neck.

🌟 For Peaceful, Restful Sleep

Cedarwood + Lavender + Spikenard
Diffuse 30 minutes before bed.

🌟 For Glowing, Healthy Skin

Frankincense + Myrrh
Dilute and apply to face, neck, or hands.

🌟 For Warmth, Confidence & Encouragement

Cassia + Wild Orange
Diffuse to uplift mood and create a cozy atmosphere.


🌿 A Final Word: Scripture’s Oils, Today’s Support

These oils connect us to Scripture…
but they also support us right now — in our modern stress, modern pace, modern emotions, and modern bodies.

Every time you uncap one of these ancient-aroma bottles, may you be reminded:

✨ God’s healing is timeless.
✨ His design is intentional.
✨ And He still uses creation to comfort, restore, and renew us today.


Learn more about Oils of The Bible: God’s Ancient Gifts for Our Modern Lives from Ronai at https://ronaibrumett.com/post/oils-of-the-bible

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A Balanced Look at the 90-Day Reset

What It Promises — and What the Science Says

We explore wellness with curiosity, depth, and a commitment to truth here. Wellness isn’t about hype — it’s about harmony. So, when a new wellness plan captures attention, we look beneath the surface.

Today, we’re diving into doTERRA’s 90-Day Reset — what it includes, how it works, and how it aligns (or doesn’t) with research-based wellness principles.

A great place to start is the Lifestyle Assessment.


🌿 What Is the 90-Day Reset?

The 90-Day Reset is a structured, three-month wellness journey created by doTERRA to support the body’s natural cleansing systems through nutrition, supplementation, essential oils, and mindful living.

The program unfolds in three intentional phases — each designed to build on the last.

Month 1 — Prepare

The first month focuses on priming the body’s natural detox pathways, fueling cells with nutrients, and gently beginning the bodies drainage support.

Here are the products you’ll need and why you’ll need them:

  • VMG+®: Whole-food vitamins and minerals fuel detox enzymes (for example, B vitamins for methylation and zinc for liver enzyme activation) and replenish daily nutrient gaps.* With liposomal delivery and essential oil synergy, VMG+ enhances how nutrients are absorbed, transported, and retained in the body.
  • EO Mega®+: Omega-3s are incorporated into cell membranes, which improve fluidity and communication and support a healthy inflammatory response, reducing the burden on detox pathways.* With the inclusion of Wild Orange essential oil in EO Mega+, which is high in the natural chemical constituent limonene, we saw a decrease in both diastolic blood pressure and resting heart rate in clinical trials.
  • doTERRA PB Restore®: This pre-, pro-, and postbiotics supplement supports gut lining integrity, balances immune function, and prepares your microbiome for deep detoxification.*
  • MetaPWR® Mito2Max®: The MetaPWR Mito2Max formula of standardized plant extracts and metabolic cofactors supports healthy cellular energy production.* Research suggests its ingredients may improve stamina, decrease fatigue, and support metabolic performance.*
  • RevitaZen+™ Complex: RevitaZen+ includes RevitaZen™ Detoxification Blend, which provides synergistic essential oil cofactors for system-wide detoxification. Emerging preclinical research suggests the oils within this blend work with your body—supporting the liver, kidney, and colon—aiding its natural detoxification processes when ingested.*
    Ingredients include:
    • Cocrystal Silybin (Milk Thistle): Offers superior liver protection and antioxidant support, according to preclinical research.*
    • Artichoke Leaf Extract: Enhances bile production and digestive function.*
    • Black Cumin Seed Oil (3% Thymoquinone): Provides potent antioxidant support and immune modulation, according to preclinical research.*
    • Cumin Essential Oil: Supports healthy lipid metabolism and gut function, according to preclinical research.*

Month 2 — Cleanse

This phase aims to rebalance gut flora and clear what no longer serves your system.

Here are the products you’ll need and why you’ll need them:

  • Continue with VMG+EO Mega+doTERRA PB Restore, and RevitaZen+.
  • doTERRA TerraZyme™: Broad-spectrum digestive enzymes reduce undigested food residues that can feed harmful microbes and stress gut lining, freeing up internal enzyme production for detoxification processes.*
  • GX Assist®: This supplement combines essential oils (Oregano, Tea Tree, Lemon, Lemongrass, Peppermint, and Thyme) with caprylic acid to create an environment unfavorable to harmful gut microbes and biofilms, clearing space for beneficial strains.*
  • DDR Prime® Cellular Complex: This essential oil blend (Frankincense, Thyme, Clove, Wild Orange, Summer Savory, Niaouli, and Lemongrass) supports healthy inflammatory response, DNA protection, and cellular renewal pathways while toxins are mobilized.*
  • RevitaZen Detoxification Blend: The essential oils in this blend—Tangerine, Rosemary, Geranium, Ginger, Juniper Berry and Cilantro—work synergistically to stimulate liver enzymes, improve circulation, and aid toxin mobilization.*

Month 3 — Renew

Here, the goal is restoration — rebuilding resilience and nourishing the body at the cellular level.

Here are the products you’ll need and why you’ll need them:

  • Continue with VMG+EO Mega+doTERRA PB Restore, and DDR Prime Cellular Complex.
  • MetaPWR Advantage: When combined with healthy lifestyle choices, taking MetaPWR Advantage once a day can help fortify your metabolic health.* It provides collagen peptides, NMN, NADH, and marine minerals to support mitochondrial renewal, connective tissue repair, skin integrity, and healthy aging.*

“A comprehensive approach combining daily foundational wellness with targeted detox tools … supporting the body’s natural cleansing processes — without harsh or extreme detox methods.”
doTERRA, The 90-Day Reset

The plan also emphasizes key lifestyle practices: hydration, movement, colorful whole foods, restful sleep, and mindfulness. These habits are the true anchors of sustainable wellness.


🔬 How Does This Fit into the Science of Detox?

Detox Myths and What the Research Shows

Science takes a cautious view of commercial “detox” programs.

The National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health (NCCIH) notes that there is “no compelling research to support the use of ‘detox’ diets for weight management or eliminating toxins from the body” (NCCIH, 2015).

A review by Klein and Kiat (2015) came to a similar conclusion — finding very little high-quality evidence that detox diets work as advertised.

Harvard Health Publishing adds, “There’s a stark contrast between powerful claims made by those promoting various cleanses and the scant evidence that they do anything good for your health” (Shmerling, 2020).

In one small clinical study, a four-week dietary intervention did show reductions in certain trace elements in hair samples — but the calorie-restricted diet alone had greater weight-loss effects, and the authors emphasized the limitations of the research (Jung et al., 2020).


What This Means for the 90-Day Reset

From a research perspective, the 90-Day Reset blends evidence-supported habits (like nutrition, exercise, hydration, and sleep) with products that target cellular health and gut balance.

While claims about “cleansing toxins” are not strongly supported by large-scale trials, the lifestyle structure of the Reset reflects principles that science consistently supports: whole foods, movement, mindfulness, and rest.

When you nourish your body and align your habits, your system naturally does what it was designed to do — heal, restore, and thrive.


💪 Strengths of the 90-Day Reset

  • Structured and Sustainable: The gradual, three-month pacing supports real lifestyle change — not a crash cleanse (doTERRA, n.d.).
  • Focus on Foundational Wellness: Hydration, movement, nutrient-dense foods, and rest all align with proven wellness practices.
  • Holistic Design: By combining supplements, nutrition, and lifestyle, the plan supports both physical and emotional renewal.

✨ Is the 90-Day Reset Right for You?

If you’re exploring this path, consider it a reset for habits, not just for health.

Here are a few gentle guideposts:

  • Set Realistic Goals. Focus on how you feel — energy, digestion, sleep, clarity — not just numbers on a scale.
  • Prioritize Lifestyle. Nutrition, movement, hydration, and sleep are your most powerful detox tools.
  • Consult Your Provider. Especially if you’re pregnant, nursing, or managing health conditions.
  • Listen to Your Body. The best feedback comes from within — how you feel day to day matters most.
  • See It as a Catalyst. Let this 90-day journey spark lasting change, rather than a temporary fix.

🌱 Final Thoughts

The doTERRA 90-Day Reset offers a thoughtful framework for rebooting wellness — combining structure, support, and intention. Its focus on whole foods, hydration, sleep, and mindful movement aligns with solid health research.

However, it’s wise to remember that the body already comes equipped with powerful detox systems — the liver, kidneys, lungs, and skin do this work daily (NCCIH, 2015; Shmerling, 2020).

So instead of chasing a “cleanse,” think of the Reset as an invitation:
to tune in, slow down, nourish deeply, and reset not just your body — but your mindset toward lasting vitality.


📚 References

doTERRA. (n.d.). The 90-Day Reset. https://www.doterra.com/US/en/90-day-reset?OwnerID=601934

Jung, S.-J., Kim, W.-L., Park, B.-H., Lee, S.-O., & Chae, S.-W. (2020). Effect of toxic trace element detoxification, body fat reduction following four-week intake of the Wellnessup diet: A three-arm, randomized clinical trial. Nutrition & Metabolism, 17, Article 47. https://doi.org/10.1186/s12986-020-00465-9

Klein, A. V., & Kiat, H. (2015). Detox diets for toxin elimination and weight management: A critical review of the evidence. Journal of Human Nutrition and Dietetics, 28(6), 675-686. https://doi.org/10.1111/jhn.12286

National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health. (2015). “Detoxes” and “cleanses”: What you need to know. https://www.nccih.nih.gov/health/detoxes-and-cleanses-what-you-need-to-know


*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.

Updated 30-day Cleanse and Restore

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Movement and Emotion: The Science of Feeling Through Motion

Have you ever noticed how your body naturally moves with your emotions? You bounce when you’re happy, curl in when you’re sad, or tense your shoulders when you’re stressed. These patterns aren’t random — they reflect how the brain and body communicate through posture, physiology, and feeling. Research confirms what movement and healing traditions have long understood: movement changes emotion, and emotion changes movement.

Now, before I go too deep, you don’t have to overthink it. You can work through your emotions by simply putting on your favorite music and letting your body move to the music naturally. I also love doing AromaDance or Mindful Movement to move through my emotions.

The Somatic Basis of Emotion

Emotions aren’t only “in your head.” They’re embodied experiences involving the autonomic nervous system (ANS), muscle tone, breath, and interoception — our inner sense of how our body feels. When emotions are safely expressed through movement, the body can complete its stress cycle and return to balance. Movement therapies and somatic practices (e.g., gentle stretching, dance/movement therapy, rhythmic motion) have demonstrated reductions in cortisol, enhanced emotional regulation, and improvements in psychological well-being (Koch, Morlinghaus, & Fuchs, 2019; Wu, Li, & Zhang, 2023).



Joy: Expand, Express, Energize

Open-arm reach / chest opening
Expanding posture (arms wide, chest lifted) increases lung volume, influences the balance of sympathetic and parasympathetic tone, and signals openness and approach behavior — postures correlated with higher positive affect (e.g. expanded posture studies).

Light bounce / small hops
Gentle vertical bouncing raises endorphins and dopamine and stimulates spinal and vestibular systems for autonomic regulation.

Playful skipping / side-step
Rhythmic side-to-side locomotion with arm swing boosts mood, supports motor coordination, and taps into play systems.

Wiggle / spontaneous dance
Free, irregular movement (hips, torso, shoulders) enhances body awareness (interoception), modulates autonomic tone, and can increase positive affect (Koch et al., 2019).

Shake / tremor (gentle, spontaneous)
Small tremors or shakes help discharge stored motor tension and reduce autonomic hyperarousal, as in trauma-release (TRE) approaches.

Roll (gentle floor roll → stand)
Rolling shifts vestibular input and proprioceptive orientation, helping interrupt stuck tension patterns and inviting fluidity in the body.


Fear & Anxiety: Grounding, Soothing, Calming

Tap / hum
Gentle tapping or humming engages vagal pathways (via vibration) and supports parasympathetic activation, helping calm high arousal states.

Squeeze / hold (self-hug)
Applying gentle compression through a self-hug or forearm hold reduces cortisol and signals safety through proprioceptive feedback.

Sway / reach
Slow pendular motion with gentle arm reach soothes the vestibular system and offers predictable sensory input, helping regulate hyperarousal.


Sadness / Grief / Shame: Nurturing, Soothing, Softening

Brush / self-hug (gentle stroking)
Slow, affective touch activates C-tactile afferents associated with oxytocin release and supports calming networks.

Rock / squeeze (gentle rocking)
Rocking or gentle compressive movement engages vestibular regulatory systems, offering a soothing rhythm and containment for emotional processing.


Anger / Frustration: Safe Release, Grounding Power

Tense → release (clench / relax)
Voluntary muscle contraction followed by release modulates muscle spindle activity and helps the nervous system downregulate from tension.

Stomp / ground (foot strike)
Energetic foot strikes provide strong proprioceptive feedback and anchor excess energy into the ground, giving a sense of boundary.

Slam / push (controlled directional force)
Using controlled push or strike against a safe surface (e.g., wall, pillow) enables expression of force while reducing internal pressure and reactivity.


Peace / Calm / Confidence: Stabilizing & Centering

Ground / connect (rooted stance)
Soft squats, weight awareness in feet/ankles, and slow shifts help reestablish bodily stability and downregulate sympathetic tone.

Rest / restorative posture
Lying down with deep, diaphragmatic breathing stimulates the vagus nerve and promotes parasympathetic recovery.

Center / mindful micro-movement
Very gentle motions (neck rolls, shoulder circles) enhance interoceptive clarity and soothe the system, supporting self-regulation.


Pain / Fatigue / Recovery: Soothing, Flowing, Releasing

Settle / breathe (long exhale + micro shifts)
Slow, extended exhales paired with small posture adjustments relieve muscle guarding and support relaxation.

Ground / connect (light motion)
Gentle walking or standing awareness improves circulation and sensory grounding — beneficial for fatigue and mild pain.

Stretch / yawn / gentle mobilization
Stretching or yawning modulates muscle spindle feedback and encourages relaxation and renewed energy.


Why Somatic Movement Works

  • Interoception & emotional regulation: Improving body awareness strengthens emotion regulation capacity.
  • Rhythm & vestibular input: Repetitive movements (sway, rock, bounce) help regulate the autonomic nervous system.
  • Vocal + breath stimulation: Humming, sighing, and extended exhalation activate vagal pathways.
  • Free movement & dance: Encourages fluidity, creativity, and improved affect regulation (Koch et al., 2019; Wu et al., 2023).

Final Thoughts

Our feelings naturally manifest in the body. By intentionally choosing movement that mirrors or completes those expressions, we can help the body return to balance. Whether it’s a joyful stretch, a grounding stomp, or a slow restorative breath, each movement is a doorway to recalibration and liberation.


References

Dreisörner, A., & Junker, N. M. (2022). Self-soothing touch and being hugged reduce cortisol responses to stress: A randomized controlled trial on stress, physical touch, and social identity. Journal of Psychosomatic Research, 157, 110847. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jpsychores.2022.110847

Eckstein, M., Kämmerer, D., Knafo, S., & Heinrichs, M. (2020). Calming effects of touch in human, animal, and robotic social interactions. Frontiers in Psychiatry, 11, Article 567. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7672023/

Koch, S. C., Morlinghaus, K., & Fuchs, T. (2019). Effects of dance/movement therapy and dance on health-related psychological outcomes: A meta-analysis. Frontiers in Psychology, 10, Article 1806. https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.01806/full

Lindgren, L. (2012). Emotional and physiological responses to touch massage (Doctoral dissertation, Umeå University). Umeå University Repository. https://www.diva-portal.org/smash/get/diva2%3A568111/fulltext01.pdf

Packheiser, J., et al. (2024). A systematic review and multivariate meta-analysis of touch interventions: Effects on cortisol, pain, anxiety, and more. Nature Human Behaviour. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41562-024-01841-8

Wu, J., Li, Y., & Zhang, T. (2023). Effects of dance movement interventions on psychological health in older adults: A meta-analysis and systematic review. Brain Sciences, 13(7), 981. https://www.mdpi.com/2076-3425/13/7/981

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Discover the Gentle Power of Castor Oil + Essential Oils

doTERRA’s new CPTG®, Organic, Hexane-Free Castor Oil brings a time-tested natural ingredient into modern self-care. Grounded research shows its core fatty acid, ricinoleic acid, influences smooth-muscle receptors responsible for castor oil’s traditional laxative use (Tunaru et al., 2012). Topically, it’s a thick, nurturing emollient that seals moisture and slows evaporation of essential oils (CIR Expert Panel, 2007).

Evidence snapshot:
A controlled clinical study in elderly adults demonstrated that abdominal castor oil packs eased constipation discomfort (Arslan & Eser, 2011), while an exploratory dermatology trial found castor oil cream brightened under-eye skin tone (Parvizi et al., 2024). These early data hint at localized benefits, though large-scale trials are still pending.

What about “detox”?
Experts emphasize that castor oil does not remove systemic toxins; the liver and kidneys already perform that task. However, mindful rituals such as gentle abdominal packs may enhance relaxation and circulation — supportive, not curative (MD Anderson, 2023).

Why choose organic and hexane-free?
Cold-press extraction avoids chemical solvents like hexane, aligning with cleaner environmental and consumer-safety practices (Cravotto et al., 2022; EUFIC, 2025). doTERRA’s sourcing ensures a solvent-free, USDA-certified organic product designed for safe topical blending (doTERRA, 2025).

How to use it safely

  • Patch-test every new blend.
  • Apply small amounts — a few drops per area.
  • Use packs two or three times per week at most.
  • Avoid internal use or use during pregnancy unless advised by a clinician (Alookaran, 2024).

Favorite DIY Ideas

  1. Night-Time Skin Treatment — 3 drops Castor Oil + 1 drop Frankincense.
  2. Scalp Support Mask — ½ tsp Castor Oil + ½ tsp Jojoba + Rosemary & Peppermint.
  3. Hormone Comfort Pack — Castor Oil + Clary Sage & Geranium; warm compress 30 min.

“Science gives us confidence; ritual gives us rhythm. Together they create empowered wellness.”


References

Alookaran, J. (2024). Castor Oil. In StatPearls. StatPearls Publishing. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK557815/

Arslan, G. G., & Eser, I. (2011). An examination of the effect of castor oil packs on constipation in the elderly. Complementary Therapies in Clinical Practice, 17(1), 58–62. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ctcp.2010.04.004

Cosmetic Ingredient Review Expert Panel. (2007). Final report on the safety assessment of Ricinus communis (castor) seed oil and related ingredients. International Journal of Toxicology, 26(Suppl 3), 31–77. https://doi.org/10.1080/10915810701663150

Cravotto, G., et al. (2022). Towards substitution of hexane as extraction solvent of food products and ingredients with no regrets. Foods, 11(21), 3412. https://doi.org/10.3390/foods11213412

European Food Information Council (EUFIC). (2025, May 5). Is hexane in food a cause for concern? https://www.eufic.org/en/food-production/article/is-hexane-in-food-a-cause-for-concern

MD Anderson Cancer Center. (2023, October 19). What to know about castor oil health claims. https://www.mdanderson.org/cancerwise/what-to-know-about-castor-oil-health-claims.h00-159622590.html

Parvizi, M. M., Saki, N., Samimi, S., Radanfer, R., Shahrizi, M. M., & Zarshenas, M. M. (2024). Efficacy of castor oil cream in treating infraorbital hyperpigmentation: An exploratory single-arm clinical trial. Journal of Cosmetic Dermatology, 23(3), 911–917. https://doi.org/10.1111/jocd.16056

Tunaru, S., Althoff, T. F., Nüsing, R. M., Diener, M., & Offermanns, S. (2012). Castor oil induces laxation and uterus contraction via ricinoleic acid activating prostaglandin EP3 receptors. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences of the United States of America, 109(23), 9179–9184. https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.1201627109

doTERRA. (2025). Meet Castor Oil and 5 Ways to Use Castor Oil. https://www.doterra.com/US/en/blog