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Supporting Feelings of Anxiousness: A Mind-Body-Spirit Approach

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In a world that moves fast and demands more by the minute, it’s natural to feel off-center from time to time. The tightness in your chest, racing thoughts, or that lingering sense of unease—these are all signs that your nervous system is calling out for support. The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck in that place. There are simple, empowering ways to shift, center, and reconnect with your calm. At Beyond Possibilities, we believe in honoring the whole person—mind, body, and spirit—as we explore gentle, effective tools to support emotional wellness.

What is Anxiousness?

Anxiousness is the word we often use to describe feelings of nervousness, unease, or worry—especially about things that haven’t happened yet. It can show up in your body (like tension or restlessness), your thoughts (racing, looping, or worst-case scenarios), or even in your behavior (avoidance, irritability, or over-preparing). While it’s a normal response to stress, there are healthy ways to manage these emotions and ground yourself in the present.

The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique

One of the simplest and most effective tools for managing feelings of anxiousness is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique. This sensory-based method brings you into the present moment using your five senses. It’s quick, easy, and can be used anywhere.

Here’s how it works:

  1. See – Look around and name five things you can see. Maybe it’s the color of your socks, a picture on the wall, or sunlight through the window.
  2. Touch – Identify four things you can physically feel. The texture of your jeans, the chair beneath you, your coffee mug, or a cozy blanket.
  3. Hear – Tune in to three sounds. A ticking clock, birds outside, the gentle hum of your refrigerator.
  4. Smell – Acknowledge two scents around you. It could be a candle burning, fresh air, or a favorite essential oil.
  5. Taste – Focus on one thing you can taste. Take a sip of tea, a breath mint, or simply notice the aftertaste of your last meal.

This practice gently shifts your attention away from anxious thoughts and helps you settle into the now. It’s grounding, calming, and supportive of emotional regulation.

Supporting Emotions Naturally with doTERRA Essential Oils

Sometimes, all it takes is a single breath infused with a grounding aroma to remind you—you’re safe, supported, and capable of calm. Aromatic use of doTERRA essential oils can be a beautiful and natural complement to your emotional wellness routine.

While essential oils are not intended to treat or cure any condition, they can be used to create a calming atmosphere, promote relaxation, and support your sense of emotional balance.

✦ Aromatic Use for Calm and Clarity

  • Lavender – Known for its gentle, relaxing aroma. Diffuse during evening routines or when you need a moment of stillness.
  • doTERRA Balance® Grounding Blend – With its woodsy scent, this blend encourages a centered, grounded feeling—ideal for pairing with the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
  • Adaptiv® Calming Blend – Designed to be used during stressful moments, Adaptiv’s bright yet soothing aroma is great for finding your footing again.

✦ Touch Support for Emotional Anchoring

Pre-diluted and ready to roll, doTERRA’s Emotional Aromatherapy Touch Kit is perfect for quick, on-the-go emotional support:

  • Peace® (Reassuring Blend) – Roll over your heart or wrists during moments of overwhelm.
  • Cheer® (Uplifting Blend) – A boost of sunshine in a bottle, perfect when you need a lift in spirits.

✦ Creating Rituals for Emotional Wellness

Incorporate oils into routines that promote intention and balance:

  • Morning intention setting with a drop of Motivate® for focus and drive.
  • Evening journaling with Frankincense for clarity and grounding.
  • Mindful breathing with Bergamot, placing a drop in your palms, inhaling deeply, and letting the calm settle in.
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Whole-Person Support with Energy Work

At Beyond Possibilities, we also offer a variety of healing modalities designed to support emotional well-being through energy alignment:

These tools do not diagnose or treat any condition, but they offer gentle, supportive ways to help you feel more connected, aligned, and empowered in your everyday life.

A Spiritual Approach to Inner Calm

Sometimes, what we need most isn’t another strategy—but a reminder that we’re not in this alone. Tuning into spiritual support can offer deep peace and reassurance, especially when emotional overwhelm feels too heavy to carry on your own.

Whether it’s prayer, meditation, or simply pausing to breathe and invite in Divine presence, spirituality can be a powerful anchor during uncertain times.

I invite you to watch this beautiful video:

🎥 Pause. Breathe. Trust.

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It’s a gentle, soulful reminder to return to your breath, lean into trust, and allow yourself to rest in something greater than yourself.

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You Are Not Alone

Emotional wellness is a journey—and you don’t have to walk it alone. Whether you’re exploring essential oils for the first time, practicing grounding, or curious about energy work, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

If you’d like to dive deeper, schedule a session, or simply chat about what might support you best, we’d love to connect.

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The Healing Power of Belief: How the Mind Fuels Recovery

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Belief is more than just a hopeful thought—it can be a powerful therapeutic tool. Across cultures and medical paradigms, belief has played a central role in the healing process, influencing everything from patient outcomes to how societies understand illness. Drawing from scholarly insights and energy healing modalities, we explore how belief shapes healing in profound and measurable ways.

Belief as a Catalyst for Healing

According to Warner (2006), belief is not merely a psychological comfort but a functional component of the healing process. Warner points out that belief engages both the mind and body, triggering neurochemical responses that can reduce pain, enhance mood, and even strengthen the immune system. This is evident in the placebo effect, where patients improve after receiving treatments with no active medical ingredients—simply because they believe the treatment will work.​

What’s striking is that belief doesn’t need to be medically “rational” to be effective. Even rituals or treatments without scientific backing can promote recovery if the patient has strong faith in them. This doesn’t diminish the value of evidence-based medicine; rather, it shows how incorporating the patient’s mindset and cultural background can enhance clinical care.​

The Cultural Context of Belief and Healing

The influence of belief also has deep cultural roots. In traditional societies, belief systems are integral to healing rituals, carrying real therapeutic weight. When patients trust in the healer and the ritual, their bodies often respond positively.​

Belief can validate the treatment in the eyes of the patient and the community, reinforcing its efficacy through collective trust. In this way, folk healing isn’t just about herbs or chants—it’s about shared meaning, expectation, and psychological alignment.​

Mind Over Medicine: Insights from Behavioral Health

Research demonstrates how belief influences medical outcomes. Positive beliefs can lower stress, improve treatment adherence, and reduce the perception of symptoms. Belief becomes a mechanism through which patients reclaim agency over their health, particularly in chronic or uncertain medical conditions. Trust in the process—whether through conventional medicine, alternative therapies, or spiritual practices—can empower healing in ways that are both biological and emotional.​Discover Healing

Energy Healing Modalities: Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code

Dr. Bradley Nelson’s energy healing modalities—The Emotion Code, The Body Code, and The Belief Code—offer structured approaches to harnessing belief in the healing process.​Discover Healing

  • The Emotion Code: Focuses on identifying and releasing trapped emotions that may be causing physical or emotional distress. By addressing these emotional energies, individuals can restore balance and promote healing.​Discover Healing
  • The Body Code: Expands upon The Emotion Code by encompassing a broader range of imbalances, including structural, nutritional, and energetic issues. It aims to uncover and correct the root causes of discomfort and disease.​
  • The Belief Code: Targets limiting beliefs stored in the subconscious mind. By identifying and transforming these beliefs, individuals can remove mental barriers to healing and personal growth.​Discover Healing

These modalities utilize muscle testing to communicate with the subconscious mind, allowing practitioners to pinpoint and address specific issues. By aligning the conscious and subconscious beliefs, they facilitate a holistic healing process that integrates the power of belief.​Discover Healing

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Conclusion

Belief is more than a placebo—it is a dynamic part of the healing equation. It bridges the mind-body divide, amplifies the effects of treatment, and connects patients to their cultural and spiritual roots. By recognizing and respecting the role of belief, practitioners can foster more holistic, empathetic, and effective care.​

References

Bascom, W. (1949). The bearing of folk belief on cure and healing. Journal of American Folklore, 62(243), 306–313. https://www.jstor.org/stable/3814395​

Discover Healing. (n.d.). The Belief Code. https://discoverhealing.com/the-belief-code/​Discover Healing+3Discover Healing+3Discover Healing+3

Discover Healing. (n.d.). The Emotion Code. https://discoverhealing.com/the-emotion-code/​Discover Healing

Discover Healing. (n.d.). The Body Code. https://discoverhealing.com/the-body-code/​

Warner, E. (2006). The role of belief in healing. Journal of the Royal Society of Medicine, 99(4), 199–201. https://doi.org/10.1258/jrsm.99.4.199​

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Self-Love Declaration for Raising My Frequency

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I am a radiant being of love and light. With every breath, I choose to honor myself, embrace my worth, and stand in my power.

I release all that dims my glow and welcome the energy of joy, peace, and abundance. My heart beats in harmony with the highest vibrations, aligning me with my true essence.

I speak to myself with kindness. I nourish my body, mind, and soul with love. I am worthy of all that is good, simply because I exist.

I trust in the divine timing of my journey. I let go of fear and doubt, knowing that I am always supported.

I vibrate at the frequency of gratitude, attracting miracles effortlessly. Love flows to me and through me, amplifying my light and lifting those around me.

I am love. I am light. I am limitless.

And so it is. 💜✨

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Healing Beyond the Trigger: Working Through PTSD, Anxiety, and Emotional Responses

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Life has a way of bringing up emotions when we least expect them. A scent, a phrase, a certain place—suddenly, you’re overwhelmed, heart racing, body tense, mind spiraling. Triggers are real, and for those navigating PTSD, anxiety, or emotional wounds, they can feel all-consuming. But healing is possible. Through research-backed techniques, meditation, essential oils, and energy healing modalities like Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code, we can shift from reactive to resilient. Let’s explore the path to emotional freedom.

Quick Techniques for In-the-Moment Relief

When emotions rise suddenly, having a few quick techniques on hand can make all the difference. Here are five powerful strategies to help ground yourself in the moment:

  1. 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Exercise: Identify five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. This brings awareness back to the present.
  2. Box Breathing: Inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four, hold for four. Repeat until your body relaxes.
  3. Butterfly Hug: Cross your arms over your chest and gently tap your shoulders in an alternating rhythm to activate the calming response.
  4. Progressive Muscle Relaxation: Tense and release muscle groups from head to toe to release built-up tension.
  5. Affirmation & Essential Oil Inhalation: Apply an essential oil like Adaptiv or Lavender to your palms, inhale deeply, and repeat a calming affirmation such as, “I am safe. I am grounded. I am in control.”

Research-Backed Strategies for Processing PTSD, Anxiety, and Triggers

  1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one of the most effective treatments for PTSD and anxiety. Research shows that CBT helps reframe negative thought patterns, reducing fear responses to triggers (Watkins et al., 2018). By working through thoughts and emotions in a structured way, individuals gain control over their reactions and begin the healing process.
  2. Somatic Experiencing Trauma isn’t just in the mind—it lives in the body. Somatic Experiencing (SE), developed by Peter Levine, focuses on releasing stored trauma through body awareness and movement. Studies show that SE significantly reduces PTSD symptoms by completing the body’s natural fight-or-flight response (Payne et al., 2015).
  3. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) EMDR is a well-established therapy that helps individuals process trauma by engaging in bilateral stimulation while recalling distressing memories. Research confirms its effectiveness in reducing PTSD symptoms by changing how the brain stores traumatic experiences (Shapiro & Maxfield, 2019).
  4. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Mindfulness isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a science-backed way to reduce emotional distress. MBSR, developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, has been shown to decrease symptoms of PTSD and anxiety by helping individuals stay present rather than being pulled into past trauma or future worries (Khusid & Vythilingam, 2016).
  5. Journaling for Emotional Release Writing about trauma and emotions provides a safe outlet for expression. Studies reveal that expressive writing significantly reduces symptoms of PTSD and anxiety, aiding in emotional processing and cognitive restructuring (Pennebaker & Smyth, 2016).
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Supporting Emotional Healing with Meditation

Meditation is a powerful tool for calming the nervous system and reducing emotional reactivity. Breath-focused meditation, body scans, and guided visualizations help retrain the brain to respond differently to stress. Studies indicate that regular meditation lowers cortisol levels, reducing overall stress and improving emotional regulation (Goyal et al., 2014). If you’re feeling overwhelmed, try a simple grounding practice: inhale for four counts, hold for four, exhale for four. Repeat until your body relaxes into the present moment.

Supporting Emotional Healing with doTERRA Essential Oils

Essential oils work on an emotional and physiological level, helping the body shift out of fight-or-flight mode. Some of the most supportive oils include:

  • Lavender: Known for its calming properties, lavender reduces anxiety and promotes relaxation (Koulivand et al., 2013).
  • Frankincense: Helps support deep emotional healing by grounding and stabilizing emotions.
  • Adaptiv Blend: Specifically designed to support mood and stress, Adaptiv aids in emotional resilience.
  • Shinrin Yoku Blend: Inspired by the Japanese practice of forest bathing, this oil creates a sense of peace and presence.

To use, apply diluted oils to pulse points, diffuse them in your space, or inhale deeply for immediate support.

Supporting Emotional Healing with Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code

Sometimes, our emotional triggers stem from trapped emotions, energy imbalances, or limiting beliefs. The Emotion Code, Body Code, and Belief Code are energy healing techniques that help identify and release these underlying blocks.

  • Emotion Code: Releases trapped emotions stored in the body that contribute to triggers and anxiety.
  • Body Code: Balances the body’s energy systems, addressing physical, emotional, and energetic misalignments.
  • Belief Code: Rewires limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in fear, self-doubt, or emotional distress.

Through muscle testing and intention-based release, these methods help bring the body and mind back into alignment, allowing for deep emotional healing.

Final Thoughts

Healing isn’t about erasing the past—it’s about rewriting your response to it. Whether through scientifically backed therapies, meditation, essential oils, or energy healing techniques, you have the power to reclaim peace. If you’re ready to take the next step in emotional healing, let’s connect. Schedule a session and experience firsthand how deep transformation is possible.

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References

Goyal, M., Singh, S., Sibinga, E. M., Gould, N. F., Rowland-Seymour, A., Sharma, R., … & Haythornthwaite, J. A. (2014). Meditation programs for psychological stress and well-being: A systematic review and meta-analysis. JAMA Internal Medicine, 174(3), 357-368.

Khusid, M. A., & Vythilingam, M. (2016). The emerging role of mindfulness meditation as effective self-management strategy, part 1: Clinical implications for depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, and anxiety. Military Medicine, 181(9), 961-968.

Koulivand, P. H., Ghadiri, M. K., & Gorji, A. (2013). Lavender and the nervous system. Evidence-Based Complementary and Alternative Medicine, 2013, 681304.

Payne, P., Levine, P. A., & Crane-Godreau, M. A. (2015). Somatic experiencing: Using interoception and proprioception as core elements of trauma therapy. Frontiers in Psychology, 6, 93.

Pennebaker, J. W., & Smyth, J. M. (2016). Opening up by writing it down: How expressive writing improves health and eases emotional pain. Guilford Publications.

Shapiro, F., & Maxfield, L. (2019). Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): Information processing in the treatment of trauma. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 75(11), 2078-2090.

Watkins, L. E., Sprang, K. R., & Rothbaum, B. O. (2018). Treating PTSD: A review of evidence-based psychotherapy interventions. Frontiers in Behavioral Neuroscience, 12, 258.

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Unlocking Our Emotions: A Path to Healing and Balance

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Emotions are the language of our inner world, a bridge between our thoughts and physical experiences. They guide us, teach us, and—if we listen closely—can unlock a profound sense of healing and transformation. Yet, too often, we suppress, ignore, or misunderstand our emotions, leading to stress, disconnection, and even physical discomfort. What if we could change that narrative? What if unlocking our emotions meant unlocking our full potential?

Keep reading to receive support in expanding your emotional vocabulary and understanding your emotions on a deeper level. Plus, at the end of this blog, you’ll find a FREE Emotions Journal to help you track, process, and navigate your feelings with greater clarity and confidence.

The Science Behind Emotions

Research in psychology and neuroscience confirms that emotions are deeply connected to both our mental and physical well-being. Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, a leading researcher in affective science, explains that emotions are not hardwired reactions but rather constructed experiences influenced by past events, environment, and even physiological states (Barrett, 2017). This means we have more control over our emotional experiences than we might believe.

Chronic stress and unresolved emotional patterns have been linked to physiological ailments such as cardiovascular disease, weakened immune function, and digestive disorders (Sapolsky, 2004). Conversely, emotional awareness and regulation can improve overall well-being, fostering resilience and healthier relationships (Gross & John, 2003). By learning to recognize, process, and release our emotions, we allow ourselves to live in greater harmony with our bodies and minds.

Emotional Healing: Releasing What No Longer Serves You

The process of emotional healing is about acknowledging past experiences, understanding their impact, and allowing ourselves to move forward. According to Discover Healing, emotional imbalances often stem from trapped emotions—energetic imprints from past experiences that, if unaddressed, can contribute to emotional distress and physical discomfort. Techniques such as the Emotion Code, meditation, and mindfulness practices help release these stored emotions, allowing for renewed energy and clarity.

One key to emotional healing is self-awareness. By tuning in to how we feel and why, we begin to break free from automatic responses and unconscious emotional loops. Journaling, affirmations, and guided breathwork are simple yet powerful ways to cultivate emotional awareness and healing.

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Supporting Emotions with Essential Oils

Essential oils can be profound allies in emotional wellness. Their aromatic compounds interact with the limbic system—the part of the brain that processes emotions—helping to shift emotional states and promote balance (doTERRA, 2016).

  • For Stress & Anxiety: Lavender and Bergamot help calm the nervous system and promote relaxation.
  • For Sadness & Grief: Citrus oils like Wild Orange and Lemon uplift and energize the spirit.
  • For Anger & Frustration: Frankincense and Roman Chamomile support grounding and emotional release.
  • For Confidence & Motivation: Peppermint and Rosemary invigorate the senses and promote clarity.
  • For Emotional Release & Healing: doTERRA’s Console Blend is formulated to soothe the heart and encourage peace.

By integrating essential oils into our daily rituals—through diffusion, topical application, or mindful inhalation—we create a supportive environment for emotional transformation.

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Expand Your Emotional Vocabulary

Unique Emotions & Phrases

  1. Tickety-boo (British, possibly from Hindi ṭhīk hai, bābū) – Everything is going smoothly and well.
  2. Hiraeth (Welsh) – A deep longing for something, especially home or a place in time that can never be returned to.
  3. Saudade (Portuguese) – A melancholic longing for someone or something lost, mixed with fondness.
  4. Schadenfreude (German) – The pleasure derived from another’s misfortune.
  5. L’appel du vide (French) – “The call of the void,” the sudden urge to jump from high places or do something reckless.
  6. Dépaysement (French) – The feeling of being out of place, especially in a foreign country.
  7. Iktsuarpok (Inuit) – The anticipation of someone’s arrival, causing frequent checking outside.
  8. Torschlusspanik (German) – The fear of opportunities slipping away as one ages.
  9. Meraki (Greek) – Pouring your heart and soul into something you do.
  10. Litost (Czech) – A state of grief, regret, or torment, especially caused by self-awareness.

General Emotions & Expressions

  1. Ebullient – Overflowing with enthusiasm and energy.
  2. Serene – Calm, peaceful, and untroubled.
  3. Discombobulated – Confused or thrown off balance.
  4. Blissful – Extremely happy and content.
  5. Giddy – Lighthearted excitement or dizziness.
  6. Wistful – A mix of sadness and longing for something past.
  7. Jubilant – Overjoyed and triumphant.
  8. Lugubrious – Excessively mournful or gloomy.
  9. Exasperated – Intensely frustrated or annoyed.
  10. Nonplussed – Surprised and unsure how to react.

More Expressions for Emotions

  1. Gobsmacked – Astonished beyond words.
  2. Over the moon – Extremely happy.
  3. On cloud nine – Experiencing deep joy.
  4. A bundle of nerves – Very anxious or stressed.
  5. Miffed – Slightly annoyed or put off.
  6. Beside oneself – Overwhelmed with emotion.
  7. Gutted (British) – Deeply disappointed.
  8. Chuffed (British) – Pleased or proud.
  9. All at sea – Feeling lost or confused.
  10. Like a cat on a hot tin roof – Restless or anxious.

Complex or Subtle Emotions

  1. Forelsket (Norwegian) – The euphoria of first falling in love.
  2. Mono no aware (Japanese) – A sensitivity to the fleeting nature of life.
  3. Sisu (Finnish) – Extraordinary perseverance in adversity.
  4. Komorebi (Japanese) – The feeling of sunlight filtering through trees.
  5. Depaysement (French) – Feeling displaced in a foreign land.
  6. Resfeber (Swedish) – The restless anxiety and excitement before a journey.
  7. Kilig (Tagalog) – The butterflies-in-the-stomach feeling of romantic excitement.
  8. Mudita (Sanskrit) – Taking joy in the happiness of others.
  9. Fernweh (German) – A longing for distant places, the opposite of homesickness.
  10. Voorpret (Dutch) – The joy of anticipation before an event.

Expressions of Deep Emotion

  1. Sonder – The realization that everyone has a complex inner life like yours.
  2. Melancholy – A reflective sadness, often without an obvious cause.
  3. Cathartic – Feeling relieved after releasing emotions.
  4. Ethereal – Feeling light and otherworldly, often connected to beauty.
  5. Poignant – Deeply emotional, touching, and bittersweet.
  6. Stoic – Enduring hardship without showing emotion.
  7. Rapture – Intense pleasure or joy.
  8. Awe-struck – Filled with wonder and amazement.
  9. Nostalgic – A warm yet bittersweet longing for the past.
  10. Devastated – Completely shattered emotionally.

Final Thoughts: Embracing the Journey

Unlocking our emotions is not about controlling or suppressing them but about honoring them as part of our human experience. When we cultivate emotional intelligence, embrace healing, and utilize natural tools like essential oils, we empower ourselves to live with greater joy, resilience, and connection.

Are you ready to unlock your emotions and step into greater emotional freedom? It starts with a single moment of awareness—and a willingness to feel, release, and heal.

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